[Ask a Girl] Ladies: when you are single and looking for sex...

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  1. PhX_AZ_SWM_1972

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    ...what places do you go (and excluding sex clubs, everyone is there to get laid), when you are horny and want a no-strings night of sex? How do you let guys know you are on the prowl? Do you make the first move? Or do you just post ads online? What is your "playbook?"

    Tell us guys your system to getting laid when you are single, and not looking for a relationship! :D
     
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    cant imagine its much harder than stepping outside and stopping the 1st attractive guy you see. damn magical vaginas. too bad the penis doesnt work like that.
     
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    That probably is a good summary, and yeah, too bad it isn't as easy for guys! LOL

    But I still would love to hear how the ladies strategize! Nothing more than curiosity! :)
     
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    :D:lol:D I've often thought the same thing!!!

    It's sad, however that, as a whole, this is truly frowned upon in our society. Men can "be on the prowl" and play the field, but women soon become branded as sluts (as much or more by other women as by men, IMhO).

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    An excellent example of the double standard we live in. We are evolving though. I can remember when female orgasm was all but unheard of, and women who were the least bit sexual were looked down upon. I've read that nowadays, young women are almost expected to orgasm when they have sex - probably an over reaction, but at least they're "allowed" to be sexual now.
     
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    Whoa whoa whoa! no one is calling anyone sluts here!

    All I am asking is a question. I was just asking for insight on how girls think is all.
     
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    Don't worry, slut isn't a bad thing to be called around here. There are gals here who refer to themselves that way, and a bunch of guys who wish their wives or gfs were more slutty than they currently are.
     
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    I was just clarifying I was not intending this thread to be disparaging in any way to anyone.
     
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    I am a big fan of hotel bars. I'm not into the typical bar scene and it is typically a more mature crowd. Then I just wait for the right offer, or maybe break the ice myself. Always on the lookout for wedding rings or tan lines where one was though as there are a lot of guys there that are alone only because they are traveling for work.
     
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    That was not my intention at all! And also why I refrained from continued discussion along that line. I didn't mean to go off topic, really! (Yeah, I think too much, and type too much...:yell:phat:ugh)

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    Thanks for responding :)
    Any other places you go to?



    It's all good here. Like I said earlier, i just didn't want anyone to get the wrong impression.
     
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    Im newly single/separated.....I havent "dated" or been on the prowl in about 23 years....not sure I remember how .

    So this will be a new learning experience for me. When I do go out and "pick up" a guy...I will come back and let you know where etc.lol
     
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    Just let me know where you'll be ahead of time...:lol:D:p

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    I am a guy, and the whole subject is interesting to me. I thought we had moved out of the dark ages but perhaps not. Back in the 1980's I was a member of a very open minded (Unitarian) church singles group. About a week before a group camp out trip I met a good looking very nice woman at the Sunday evening meeting. She asked if I was going on the trip, I said yes but I can not leave until Saturday morning. She asked if I would pick her up in the morning I said Yes. When I rang her door bell she opened it hugged me and said "wanna fuck". We dated for several weeks not exclusively but did have sex three or so times a month.
    She married two months or so after we stopped seeing each other. Then about 15 years ago I saw her at a professional function she seemed happy still married with a teen aged daughter. We said hi did a few moments of chit chat and it was nice to see her.

    For me it was a much better world when women like her could ask for what they wanted. And not be criticized or condemned for it. Sex is a very natural thing for both boys and girls.
     
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    :) To bad you weren't closer. I love me older women.

    Ha, those days are long gone. If a woman says fuck anymore, she's classified as a slut. At least here in the States. Any European country is way open minded. Guess it's a difference between perception and reality.
     
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    Then I guess Im a slut..I say fuck!! lol
     
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    Awesome. You are slowly blowing past a 5 star rating. ;)
     
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    Just slowly?? FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK!! lol
     
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    6 stars.......7 stars......8 stars.......oh shit, the gauge broke. It was only designed for 5 stars. :eek LOL
     
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    FUCK IM GOOD!!!!!!!!!!! lol