Ladies, what is the most enjoyable of these?

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  1. EnigmaticSpirit

    EnigmaticSpirit New Member

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    Do you prefer clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation, or G-spot stimulation? And you do prefer getting fucked, fingered, or eaten out? Describe to me what act brings you the most sexual pleasure.
     
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    Well, since we are all different you'll just have to get to know the girl your interested in.

    If you're looking for technique, etc. there are SO many resources online. Your sure to find what you're looking for.
     
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    It depends on who's doing it.
     
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    And non-answers like these are the reason guys have been cumming and going to sleep immediately afterward for thousands of years.


    Congratulation ladies, you are your own worst enemies, when it comes to not being satisfied in bed. We all know each woman is different, but you could have at least answered the OP with what you like. This is an anonymous board, after all.
     
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    it seems woman find it hard to be honest with there own sexuality and preference on sex....Us bloody men seem to be more open and honest what we like, well I say that most men....I knew a woman who would not dare to talk about sex yer, or even the thought of doing it and doing all the things like blow jobs etc.she just would not talk about it...Well, the ironic thing about her is that she got drunk one night and took 2 guys back with her and one of the guys said she did everything except for anal but when she got questioned about it when sober even tho she remembered she got embarrased by what she had done....but evidentially she did it.........I think she and most woman fantasise but scared of doing the action whilst men being men would take there sexual fantasy further!!!!!!
     
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    It varies from woman to woman, and from day to day, and from moment to moment during an encounter. That sounds overly broad, but it's a serious answer.

    If you develop a relationship with your partner you'll learn each others' response patterns, and to "read" each others' bodies and minds regarding what should be done and how. As for a general pattern, starting off slow and gentle, and building the intensity and firmness is probably good advice. (Though sometimes my wife and I have enjoyed a quick fuck, and done the lovemaking afterwards.)

    And don't forget the post-coital cuddle time! That may earn you as many points as being able to lick your eyebrows.
     
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    Like my "non-answer" or not, it's the truth. Every man has an individual touch. One man may excel at oral, while another man should stick to fucking. Some may just have a "magical" touch with their hands. I stand by my answer that it depends on who is doing it.

    Then, I have days of preferring one method of stimulation over another depending on where I am in my menstrual cycle, how aroused I am in general and how much time I have.

    The truth is for me, I have no true preference and really could not chose one over the others.
     
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    I've encountered a few men in my life who are pretty gutless when it comes to telling a girl if they're doing it wrong. My own man won't often ask straight out for oral even though he knows he's unlikely to be refused. In fact most of my male friends have been more inhibited than you'd expect.

    This isn't just a girl thing.
     
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    This is pretty much the truth as I know and live it except I'm usually not that slow to "warm up".

    Especially love and need the afterplay.

    (Sorry about the triple post, just answering as I go.)
     
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    :bowgood posts DF!
     
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    I don't think this post is currently giving you what you've asked for, so I'll give it a go:

    IMO, it's generally accepted that the focus of most female pleasure is the clitoris, and most women agree that, if their partners were to learn any skill, it would be how to give oral sex. Oral sex usually refers to either licking or digital stimulation of the clit, and individual preferences will vary. If you learn how to do this, it is the female equivalent of receiving a blow job, and most women will like it. It's how I've been giving my partner orgasms for decades. Usually, if a woman knows that you want to learn how to make her cum, she will teach you how. Few of us are born knowing how to please a woman sexually, and having to learn can be a turn on for many women, so don't be afraid to admit that you need to learn.

    I hope this is some of what you're looking for.
     
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    I've read quite a few of these types of thread messages polling women (or men). All it evokes in me is the thought of someone stimulating themselves pressing F5 waiting for a detailed response. I once knew a girl where written word was a more powerful aphrodisiac than seeing someone nude, or the actual act of being together.

    OP- there are many tools out there (the internet, the library, magazine, etc) that can aid you in finding the percentile of women who prefer this-or-that form of stimulation.
     
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    Wouldn't fingers be more effective than the tongue when it comes to clitoral stimulation? Is there something about the tongue that makes it as stimulating?
     
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    Tongue is wet and soft and way more pliable/flexible than a fingertip. Not to mention you have your lips as well, and you can hum, etc.
     
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    If I may quote someone wiser than I am, "There is nothing more articulate than the tongue, and nothing softer than a kiss." The tip of the tongue is the most articulate part of the body. If you don't think so, try focusing on your tongue when you make words and you'll quickly notice that it is extremely so. Learning how to lick a clit is just like learning how to make words, it takes some practice. You don't just want to lap her clit like a dog, you want to learn how to caress it tactfully and tease it, first by finding that special spot that makes it get hard, and then by learning the art of teasing and peaking, both of which involve bringing her closer and closer to orgasm without letting her go over. This results in a huge buildup of tension, and the bigger the buildup, the bigger the release will be when she cums. All this can be done with your tongue alone, if you know how, and if you will take the time to learn her body language as you caress her, and respond, she will teach you how.
     
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    Well said. The tongue brings lubrication with it, and can mold itself into a variety of shapes and sizes.

    The vernacular expression "eating" a woman is actually quite descriptive. Effective oral sex involves all of the mouth parts - tongue, lips, teeth, cheeks, roof of the mouth - all working together, in various ways, to pleasure her.

    Unfortunately, I doubt that many women can tell you exactly what to do to give good oral sex. They can't really see what you're doing, or how you're using those mouth parts; and they are usually too personally involved in the process to articulate good descriptive feedback. They CAN give you feedback if what you're doing is especially good - or not.

    Oh - and with a little practice, the fingers can augment the mouth parts. Keep the mouth parts working on clit, mons and labia - use the fingers just inside the entrance (the most sensitive part of her vagina is the outer inch or two), or use the "come here" finger wave on her G-spot if you can reach it while still eating her.
     
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    Of course, asking them individually works too. Obviously you don't want to just jump out of a bush (no pun) and spring a sexual question on them; but if you're in a relationship of some sort- just ask her.

    Some females experience vaginal/clitoral hypersensitivity. For them, it's a different experience every time.


    Ie- To be blunt and crass, some feel "suck my clit. keep going until your face is soaked," while others can very well do without it.
     
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    OP.. in my case?? all of the above...:) and as DF said.. sorry but its about who it is, what the mood is etc... I personally dont go jam a digit or lick the clit and Im on fire. lol.... for me its about the package deal... my mood, my playfulness. etc.... I dont feel there is a set preference or pattern for the answer to your question u seek... for sure throw me over the bench and fark me like no tomorrow.. yeah Ill be happy IF that is my mood... but ya know.....Ill fake it like a porn star for ya if u aint listen..... youll feel a million dollars but I wouldnt go back and screw u again lol... Im like a bloke when it comes to tucka time.. u can only have so many different types of steak on a BBQ one way but ya know.. change is good!!! Some women... find some guys boring as bat shit in bed... lol.. its so routine and predicatable.. kiss lick finger suck fuck.. blow... blah!!! its all about the game and setting the mood and desire...... Ill go from soft and feminine to cum ere bitch I wanna tear u a new arsehole!!! As DF... said.. who is one amazing lady btw.. for us girls..we cant say fark yeah finger me stupid it will work... coz sometimes myself?? I only want a cock or two in there... be adventurous.. take the risk and most important.... LISTEN TO YR WOMAN!!! even if she aint talking or saying what her needs etc are.... read her body movements, listen for her breathing change... go gentle first then any woman who is on fire wont hesitate to tell you.. bring it on Honey :)

    Sadly in some of my past sexual activities most fellas forget something very important... its

    You should of been listening when u were talking ;)
     
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    I enjoy all of them to be frank. Though my favorite is when a guy is eating me out while fingering me. ;)
     
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    Yep. Everything. Can't pick just one and would hate hex myself.
    Karma thing.

    Although to the female defense, the questions are kinda like: Hi Guys, do prefer head or handjob or what's between my legs? How do you prefer to cum? On my tits, in my mouth or another warm, wet place?

    See what I mean? We're all different but I think most of us would prefer to order the Supersized combo plate with dessert included.