[Ask a Girl] Ladies- what do YOU like most about receiving oral?

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  1. redics_girl

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    Same question as the one posed to the boys. What is so good about your lover going to town? Is there a particular technique you enjoy? Is there a meaning associated? DO you enjoy it? yadayada, weigh in!
     
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    Oral sex feels very busy. The boyfriend’s tongue seems to be everywhere and it slides and wiggles and flicks. It can stimulate my clit very directly, but it can also explore every smooth groove and it can penetrate me and curl and hook inside me and find lots of little pleasurable spots and press them and lick them. I especially like that licking feeling.

    It’s very personal to have his face tucked deep like that, and to feel his cheeks against my thighs. I feel that he’s very attentive when he’s doing these things to me. As I squirm and twist, he holds my hips to steady me and keep going more intensely, so it makes me feel taken and controlled. He uses his lips all around with a lot of enthusiasm, so much that it occurred to me that I’d like him to kiss me that way too. I told him. I told him to kiss me the way he gives me oral sex. So he became an even better kisser for those aforementioned makeout sessions. I like to taste myself on his lips and tongue as well.
     
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    My ex was good at oral, at times I felt he could do better, but it takes practice and focus on both parties.

    I enjoy clit stimulation the most, from licking fast and ferociously to long succulent laps, pinching it between his lips, suckling it and yes the deeper his mouth is imbedded to my passion the better. Also loved it when he would suck on my lips, tugging and pulling them, or taking it all in and letting me grind onto him. I too like the feeling of being controlled and taken, when he grabs my hips and thighs and will not let me go. Also it's nice when I'm really turned on and he slips a finger or two in and stimulates that puffy gspot :dgrin

    That's on a good session. I've had moments where it was just not doing anything for me, but those can be rare. I can be a tough cookie to crumble :p
     
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    Sorry to intrude, but I really have to say that those two responses by "Meee", and "Mords" were awesome! I truly love giving women oral, and it was really cool that you were both so descript. How about some more of you ladies get in on this thread!
     
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    Encroaching here...........
    Yep, Meee & Mords are so in the moment it feels like being there for them :)
    Dammit I love giving oral to a woman; it feels like I am their love slave to do their bidding.
    SO has got the idea and guides me where she wants.
    She pushes my head down when she wants strong or lower, pulls my hair when she wants lighter or higher, a horse on lead is me.
    I adore sucking her inner lips and clit but that does not seem to stimulate her much :(
    Any suggestions on how to be better?
     
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    Encroachment 2 and begging indulgence from RedG the OP :bow
    Sleeping on this subject overnight has got me thinking as to really the reason I so adore going down on a woman genitalia and come to the conclusion that it is not the sensory reasons usually associated with this practise.
    It is more symbolic in nature a sort of supplication or female worship, almost a gesture of reverence towards that which is so sacred in giving of life and untold pleasures :)
    I have the greatest respect for womanhood yet do not have a sense of being a sub by nature, or am I?
    Surely Meee will analyse and provide the appropriate verdict :)
     
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    nice! by all means, encroach.
     
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    Guilty! Take him to the dungeon!

    Actually, I don't think of a man giving oral as being submissive. I even said that the way the boyfriend does it makes me feel taken and controlled. Not that I haven't tried to be dominant when we're doing it. I've straddled his face and moved the way I wanted to move and used him for my pleasure, but when he saw how I was doing it he gripped me tight and took over, making my body move the way I'd been moving on my own. He took control back. For the record, I didn't mind. I tried standing and having him kneel in front of me. He did such a good act of being submissive, I thought I'd finally found the way, but when he was actually giving it to me, he was just too assertive. Once again, I didn't mind.

    So, based on my experience, it's hard for me to feel that a man giving oral is a submissive kind of role. But I think you should go to the dungeon anyway. :brow
     
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    I suppose, since its my thread, I should answer, huh?
    I think the thing i enjoy most about getting eaten is that its selfish in a way. I get to lay back and enjoy as redic's tongue dances over my flesh, his fingers find their way inside and his face warms my lady bits. I like to imagine what he's doing, see it in my mind, which turns me on even more. I like how he can tell when I'm going to be close, and he kicks on another gear. He starts licking faster, sucking on my lips and clit, slides his fingers in and out more rapidly. He sometimes drags his nails down my legs, just to get me to jump and shove my hips up towards his face. When I do come, he presses his face as deeply as he can and keeps his tongue working until I tap him on the head because I have no breath left. And even then, he's usually not done. he will plant little kisses along my lips, give me soft, gentle laps up and down, kiss me on the thigh and then sit up. When he looks at me, his face is usually wet from nose to chin, and he has a goofy smile on his face, and then it's my turn. ;)
     
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    Wow, what stimulating responses, hot both of them!
    Ok, ok I'll go quietly to the dungeon.......if my guard is Mords ;)
     
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    To gaurd and escort only seems to be fit for a Mord'sith :dgrin
     
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    I want to go too!.....
     
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    :dgrin


    Anyone else? Simply no need of submissive qualities...everyone naughty for a good spankin shall be summoned to the dungeon.

    Wrists out. Time to shackle these bad boys.
     
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    I want to be there to watch. Can you resist noisily at least a little?
     
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    I'll tag along as the tax collector!

    What? Don't look at me like that, everything has a tax nowaday! Now pay up that fap-tax!
     
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    I suddenly have a strange desire to be an auditor for the fap tax.
     
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    What great replies to this thread,
    I love oral sex,I am Bisexual so I receive and give
    the best of both, girls are more erotic and know
    a women's body and feelings.
    I have met some hot guys that have awesome
    talented tongues and fingers, lol.
    I think I like 69's when time and situations allow .
    You all have a great nite and have lots of sex,
    it is very good for you, xx
     
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    You can audit me any time you want ;)