[Ask a Girl] Ladies: Do you find older men a turn on?

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  1. MordsithLove

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    Since I've yet to find a thread solely on this topic, which can have lots of controversy (i.e. gold diggers, trophy wifes, etc) I am talking of respectable women that find older men (by a few years to a large significant amount of years older), attractive, appealing, and acceptable to establish a friendship, sexual relations, and/or even a true loving committed relationship.


    I find wise men with much to offer to my curiosity and experience VERY attractive. I cant be bias and put an age cap, for even men in their 60's I have found intriguing, had I have learned more of them perhaps my attraction would grow more into a true infatuation and thus a huge turn on :dgrin Granted a male of my age or younger can too provide such things, but something of an older male just tops my sundae with a yummy cherry. One day I hope to experience and share such exploration with a respectable wise man.



    So I've got to ask, ladies.....What age, and Why? Have you had any experience with such relations?
     
  2. 12barblues

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    Ooo..ooo...pick me! Pick me!......

    Yeah I know , I know.....ladies thread....sorry....
     
  3. sandwich

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    ^^^^^lol!

    Older men are better looking and sexier to me. Historically, I've found the 40 to 60 range to be most appealing.
     
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    Hey sammich......how YOU doin'?....:D
     
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    I like them younger than me.
     
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    :lol, oh bar, you crack me up :)
     
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    Redic is 3 and a half years older, but I will admit, there have been times in my life when a significantly older man was appealing to me, I remember one specifically from when i was a teenager and he was in his 50's I believe. But I knew him personally (not romantically, he was a man involved in one of my extracurricular activies in school) and his personality intrigued me. Various college professors over my decade long quest for higher education, and of course, older tv/movie stars. Bruce willis for one- that man does it for me every time!
     
  8. xeniadraven

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    I think older men have more to offer in that they tend to be more confident, intelligent and worldly wise. I also find that maturity in a partner can add a sense of security. An older man will treat you like a princess and ensure you feel safe and loved.

    With age comes an experienced hand which always helps ;-)
     
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    Got to be careful ladies. Older means differnt things to different people. I fefine "older" as 70 +. I don't think you are defining 'older" as more than 50 or 55.
     
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    Fair point. Older is a broad term. Im 31 so older to me is a man in his 40s 50s.
     
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    I would have to say the "older" age range for me is 40-50.

    :D

    It would be very interesting to meet a gentleman within this age. One in fact I have my sights set on....its the maturity level that is so attractive, and the fact that there is "no games" being played is comforting....However, there are older men who have gained no maturity at all....which is sad. I do find a sense of humor and willing to "be young" (when appropriate) also a nice trait.

    Not to forget to mention, for some of these men...chivalry isn't dead, and they know how to treat a lady out, and how to handle one in bed :dgrin
     
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    I agree with all of that, especially that last sentence. ;)
     
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    Older man here. Don't fight ladies.LOL
     
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    So, got yer sights on someone? ......I thought you were in a relationship:D.....are we to understand that some older gentleman has attracted your wandering eye?.....how did this happen..lol...inquiring minds wanna know.....well that, and my own life is rather boring at the moment so lets talk about yours!....I love a good story.....:)
     
  15. MordsithLove

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    I am currently a free bird ;)

    He has caught much more than a wandering eye...more so he has unveiled my wandering mind as well. It had all happened unexpectedly.....its a lustful fling :dgrin

    He can take my thoughts further than the moon.
     
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    I am loving this thread for some strange reason :)
     
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    Well congratulations ginger, mords is a fine catch.....
     
  18. MordsithLove

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    ???

    Ginger is a fine spicy pilot....and a respectable wise gentleman.

    Unfortunately he is not the one my sights are set on :eek:

    However ginge, you're not forgotten!!! :D Indeed you are one of the delectable men here on this forum. Hope you have been well.
     
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    Fine and spicy indeed :hitit
     
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    I find that as i've gotten older I am less selfish, more in tune with her needs. My experience is a plus as well. Oh yeah, and I do stay in shape.:cool