Lack of "Fulfilment" From Masturbation

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  1. 10_3XL

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    When I masturbate I have been noticing that - though I still get myself to climax - I have not been getting any sense of satisfaction or fulfilment. The other day (literally an all day event on one of my days off) I even masturbated on 8 different occasions ranging from finishing as quickly as possible to really long and drawn out "edging" sessions. Despite being physically completely done in after all of that I never got the usual sense of completion that I normally would. More recently than that I've noticed that I'm actually having trouble keeping myself fully erect when not directly stimulating myself in some way (didn't have that issue before). I can't think of why this is happening. I am no more stressed or any other psychological factor. I'm not lacking on sleep. I'm not disinterested in sex or sexual stimulation... Very confused and kind of concerned.

    Am I just overthinking things here?
     
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    I think another user posted a similar thread a few days ago.

    My guess, the lack of interaction/intimacy with someone else.
     
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    Oh really? I thought I'd checked before posting... I could easily have missed that, though.
     
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    No you're over masturbating!
    Leave it for a few days!

    There is a great difference between getting 'release' and getting satisfaction.
    One is a physical act, the other is a mental state.
    The two can be conjoined but are not necessarily co-conditional.

    Am I just over-answering things here ?
     
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    Probably. But I still appreciate the feedback (since it sounds about right). :p
     
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    It was me that posted about lack of satisfaction from masturbating. Though you should probably masturbate less. I'm going to give that a try too.
     
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    Looks like a compatible mutual masturbation hookup to me. Webcam time?
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    After I finish masturbating I feel less satisfied at times. Sometimes I wonder if maybe it has to do with fantasizing about being with someone so much during the "heat of the moment" that when I get off reality comes back and I'm alone.
    Also 10_3 I read somewhere that if you masturbate the same way over a period of time, you will get desensitized to other forms of sexual stimulation.
     
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    8 times in one day!
    Dude you need to get out more.
     
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    I think it's an exciting thought to think about a man getting off again and again as many times as he possibly can until he's totally spent, completely fulfilling his sexual drive and giving it everything he has to give, no matter how long and how many times it takes. I'm sorry you didn't feel the completion you would have liked. Eight times! Well, maybe nine times is the charm.
     
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    Meee, he would be dry retching by then ;)
    Poor prostate, wrung dry like washing up sponge!
     
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    I don't do it the same way over and over... won't go into detail, but I vary my technique and such. I don't always just grab hold and go. :p
    No need to tell me - I know! In my defense it's not like I make a regular habit of devoting entire days to staying in and masturbating.
    I'll set aside a day in the near future and try for nine. And I'll be sure to think of you at least once. ;)
     
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    I like it rough.
     
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    Just yell if you need a Rider ;) Although I do require a spanking first :rolleyes:
     
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    I'm pretty sure I can do rough. Honestly, I've never had the chance to play hard before. :)
    Warming up my hands to issue that spanking now... Also a warning: I tend to buck a lot when being ridden. You'll need to hold on tight or really drive yourself down/on - otherwise you might get thrown off. ;)
     
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    Be sure to give equal attention to both of my ass cheeks. They both like the color Red

    Bucking when Fucking is good! Then I don't have to do all the work ;)

     
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    Bucking when Fucking is good! Then I don't have to do all the work ;)
    I'm like a bull - I see RED and I'm gonna charge. :p
    And I never make someone else do all the work. It's all about equal give and take, right?
     
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    Here's a See of RED - Charge..... Now!! Start with a nice Slow Ride, and ending Rough and wild!
     
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    Oh, you are sooooo gonna get it. Time to break out the harnesses, riding crops, and other things to keep me in check. :D
     
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    Oh Yes, you will be trained properly! You sound like you will be an Excellent Student... you're an Eager guy, and I like that!
     
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