[Ask a Guy] Kissing a girl

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  1. HotForHoney

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    Have you ever had to think about whether or not you WANTED to kiss a girl?

    I'm not interested in whether or not you thought about SHOULD I kiss her.


    After a date, by my car, guy asked what I was thinking. I said, whether or not he was going to kiss me. So it wasn't and issue of SHOULD, it was an issue of WANT.
     
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    It's always the dilemma at the end of a first date. Personally I always want to. However therw is always the issue of her thinking that I am moving too fast. I usually go by her body language and the way that the date has gone so far. If everything has gone good and she seems like she wants to I will go for it.
     
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    Yes of course. Dates didn't always end in a situation where I wanted to nor was appropriate.

    I've told the story before but the first date with my wife was one of those situations. Didn't like her, wouldn't want to kiss her. Things did change! LOL
     
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    Standing there butt naked with an arm full of towels was probably off putting :p
     
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  5. CaramelLady

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    Only cuz you beat me too it!
     
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    For sure I've thought about it - sometimes I have wanted to kiss someone, other times not. I have my preference for the type of person I'd like to kiss (e.g. smoking is a huge negative)...
     
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    I thought you'd never ask.... Wait yea I knew you would. ;)
     
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    Nope.
     
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    A kiss is so personal. I guess when I was in dating scene, yes. Buy I can't think of a particular time.
     
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    Only if she just got done eating liver and onions.
     
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  11. CaramelLady

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    Oh wait... you thought I meant on the lips? I did, but not those lips.... :oops:
     
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    I've been on dates where part way through I didn't even want to be with her never mind want to kiss her :)
    There have been times when I have wanted & tried, sometimes welcomed others not.
    There have been times when I have wanted to but have gone by her body language .......... with experience you can usually tell by her body language if she wants to be (if she puts herself 'with-in range' or 'out of range'); if she doesn't want then what's the point.
     
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    It's ok. Wherever we start is fine with me. It's fine with you to isn't it? :cool:
     
  14. CaramelLady

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    ** Caramel is going to be coy....
     
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    **Blue Collar is going to be flirtatious...
     
  16. CaramelLady

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    Going to be?? You big flirt :oops:
     
  17. oldkid

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    Wherever you like m'lady. flasher.gif
     
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  18. CaramelLady

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    Oh honey ... It may be whatever you like....
     
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    I'm starting to feel left out... Can I get a kiss, too? Maybe more? ;)