Kegal control... deep throating... common or not?

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    I joined this forum because searching for answers to things I wonder about online has led me nowhere. This site seems like the place for answers... So men I ask you... How common are women who acually use their kegal muscles during intercourse to push pull sqeeze etc? I ask because my own experiences using mine have ranged from shock to utter confusion ( as in what is goin on?). Also I want to know how common or uncommon it is for a woman to deepthroat? It seems rare even in porn. And finally, is it unusual for a woman to truly love giving a man oral? Or do a lot of women get off to it?
     
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    As for the Kegel conttractions, I tend to think you have met uneducated or unappreciative partners, or that you are aware of them.
    I know of one who has better sensations during intercourse from using the contractions, squeezing to get more feelings from the penis. It works on me too, I feel lucky.
    For oral, it's all over the lace really. This one who loves squeezing me penis during intercourse really loves giving oral, she will even ask if she can do it when we are in bed in the middle of the night. Of course she is very giving because she loves us being on a two way street. Then I met one who would never consider putting her mouth even close to my groin, didn't even like touching it much. I heard of others from one extreme to the other. Depends on the upbringing, personal values, etc.
     
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    My wife doesn't pay much attention to tightening her pussy for me or her, rather she invites me to go in deeper when her passion arises. She never deep throats because she is unable to get past the gag reflex. I'm sure she would if she could, but it doesn't look like I'll ever feel that - no big deal for me. As far as oral goes, she loves to make me cum that way, more for the feeling of having satisfied me than receiving pleasure herself, but things are changing, and she is starting to feel my pleasure vicariously, much like I've been feeling hers for decades. I'll add that, the very first time she gave me oral was completely unexpected by me, and early in our relationship. She used her mouth only, no hand, accepted and swallowed my semen without the slightest hesitation, gave me a hug, told me that she loved me, and then offered her vagina. We've been together 37 years and I still get wet thinking about her.
     
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    Really strong Kegel muscles - a "milking pussy" - is REALLY RARE. It's definitely a surprise the first time you experience it, and the natural reaction is to resist the inevitable, and not cum too soon.
     
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    Actually, I used to fuck a woman who would tighten up pretty hard around my cock, and I found it to be a bit distracting, and it didn't feel all that good. I think a pussy is supposed to be a place of softness, and all that tightness made hers feel rough and a bit overbearing.
     
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    It has been severely uncommon for me. While shock wouldn't be my first, second, or third reactionary trait to one who used it, I would compliment her on her prowess.


     
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    Women who use the PC muscle during intercourse are rare in my experience, although I am very thick and tend to fill and stretch most women anyway. Possibly my deep throat experiences have been limited by the same issue: quite a bit longer than average and very thick. I have had a couple of women who did deep throat me, but most women can't properly do oral sex on me because they, literally, can't get their mouths around my penis. Obviously women who may have loved giving men oral sex would probably shy away from that with me.

    Anal sex has been a problem too: some women I knew in the past liked it, but wouldn't do it with me.
     
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    I reckon trying to use my muscles on a moving cock is probably harder than trying to grab a slippery eel. However if he's laying still I love to flex and relax around him.

    I haven't exactly mastered deep throat but I've never had any complaints with what I can do with my mouth.

    Yes, I adore giving head, probably more than any other form of sex play.
     
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    I do my best to try and use my kegal muscles when my mind is there. However, to be honest while in a fit of passion ridding my man I often forget to try and use them. I do have Ben Wa Balls, which I'm going to lie and say I practice with. I should, it is always fun when i do so. But, given the chance I'll always grab the Hitachi before I practice perfection my milking pussy with the Ben Wa Balls.
     
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    kegels are nice, but rare. deep throat is rare. a woman who likes oral... not very rare at all.
     
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    I can deepthroat very very well it is easier if u are lying on your back with your head tilted right back x
     
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    These Ben Wa balls u speak of... never heard of them but u bet ur tight ass im googlin them asap :)
     
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    My SO loves it when I milk his cock with my PC muscles. It brings about stronger orgasms for me too. I have too much of a gag reflex to deep throat but I adore giving head.
     
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    deep throat, nah, the magic is all with the lips, suction and the tip. Vaginal contractions, hmm, had it a lot with the Asian ladies and it can be too tight. God help you if you aren't 100 percent rock either. You can literally get kicked right out of her. All in all, if she does it like maybe twice and lets go, and so on like teasing you then great, but if the constriction is the whole show, not great. For the guys, try this to know how it feels. Spit on your index finger, now take your index finger of your other hand and curl it into the base of your thumb. Shove your spit on index finger in the hole you created. Now slide in and out meanwhile tighten the hole so you can just slide in and out. If you dig that feeling then you will like it. Personally it feels like the pussy is unwelcoming and has a mind of its own.
     
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    I find PC contractions a few seconds before and after my orgasm to heighten my pleasure but earlier on in intercourse somewhat distracting.
    Same with deep tongue kissing, great at the right moment but feels weird at other times.
    As in so many things it is all in the timing.
    I've never been with a woman willing or able to deep throat and frankly never really sought that experience.
    If I'm going to fuck a deep tunnel with abandon it's going to be a pussy without jaws full of sharp teeth!
     
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    I hope that wasn't an attempt at poking our country there sir? We are out of the recession. I made a friend from North Carolina living here who has applied for our citizenship. He figures it will be years until he might be able to go home to work. He is getting married to a piece of our fine tail and made it a home.
     
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    It's cool