[Ask a Guy] Keeping lingerie

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  1. elonlyBuster

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    This is for all you guys out there...

    I read a blog where this guy made a comment about keeping lingerie from his sexual partners.

    Apparently when you have sex with a girl and do something you've never done before, position act, roleplay and so on you keep the girl's panties/thong. When you have sex with a girl and she has the biggest boobs you've had on a girl during sex, or the nicest in your opinion you keep her bra.

    How many of you guys actually do it or something like this?
     
  2. heelfetish

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    I dunno... Sounds pretty disrespectful, tacky, and immature to me. Personally the memories of the experience are all the trophy I'd need. What does he do with these things, show them off to his buddies to brag about his latest conquest?

    So to answer, no, I've never done anything like that. And I haven't known anyone that did.

    Besides, lingerie is damn expensive... I can't imagine too many women willingly giving up their favorite bra for a one-night stand.
     
  3. Golden

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    Never done, never will. Disrespectful and tacky as sayd over me. Offcourse, i have a partner, but even if i wasnt i wouldnt keep the underwear to the girls ive had sex with..

    Some of them must feel used when their walking home (if its a one-night-stand) and the sexpartner kept a 'trophy' from the night. Not very considerate if you ask me..
     
  4. Dreama

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    I think it would be disrespectful to ask for that.
     
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    Hahaha I agree.
    Yeah I also think it is very disrespectful
     
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    Sometimes they just leave them, I've got a few pairs of panties and bras from college.
     
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    That would be tacky, tacky, tac....

    Maybe that's the wrong word for panties. How about "in poor taste."
     
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    I don't see anything wrong with it, I think it is funny..... I used to collect one sock from guys I had over. I had them all washed and put in a drawer. I threw them out when I met my hubby! I also had a list with names/scores of guys that I screwed... a girlfriend also had one and we used to compare notes... sometimes we would go out and sleep with a guy off each others list if he had a high score.
     
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    I don't understand how it's disrespectful but I do find it pretty funny. I've always wondered why guys like the idea of keeping a woman's underwear lol
     
  10. heelfetish

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    I see that as being a lot different... Although I'd probably do by best to return them to their rightful owner. :)
     
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    Do some of the women not notice when they leave without undies?
     
  12. Puss_in_boots

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    Nothing to do with your post, but I'm totally reminded of this scene from Sixteen Candles:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFQ-frSG5Gs
     
  13. CptNobody

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    Although I am incredibly turned on by sexy lingerie, I wouldnt want to keep it...what good is it without the girl. I'm the opposite and usually stay in touch with ex's and buy some of them gift cards or pick out lingerie around the holidays. Even if I'm not the one seeing it, its hot to know they are out there wearing it :)
     
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    never done.....memories remains