just my opinion

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by sweet melissa, May 17, 2007.

  1. sweet melissa

    sweet melissa New Member

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    As I read posts here and on another site I visit, something interesting comes to mind. Women often talk about how the looks or size of a penis, or whether or not it's circumsized have little or nothing to do with whether they want to have it inside them. There are comments like "it's what's attached to it that's important" or "I don't care about the cock head, I care about the man's head." Here's my take. I agree with those comments completely. I believe too that we fall in love with, or at least are attracted to, something other than the organ in question. When we fall in love with a person, what difference does it make what sex that person is, or how can we not fall in love with him or her because of what they have between their legs? When I consider having sex with someone, I don't care about the appendage or lack of. I've had sex with a few women and have an ongoing sexual relationship with another for over twenty years. I also have had sex with many men and currently have a boyfriend (here I am using that word which makes me sound like a teenager again) and never have I fallen in love or become attracted to them according to what they intend to stick in me or touch me with. I have sex because I love them or find them sexually attractive. So why all the fuss and uptightness with whether we have sex with someone of the same or opposite sex? After all, we have sex, or make love, with the person, not the object. I personally don't care what that object may be. A cock, finger, tongue, lips-upper or lower, or vibrator can all take me to an orgasm. Someone I love can take me to heaven, time after time, no matter what's between their legs. I'm not saying everyone should feel the same as me, or can, or want to for that matter. All I'm advocating is putting less emphasis on whatever sex our chosen partner may be.
     
  2. Dreama

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    :) Well said. I totally agree.
     
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    Well said. I agree. I usually am attracted to "people". Not men, not women, but people. Who cares what they've got stashed in their pants. :)
     
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    well if they got cookies stashed in there sumwere then im game lol *tips crumbs out of tainteds jeans pockets*
     
  5. SexyScorp

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    Yes

    The huge difference between men and women
    (generally speaking of course)

    Women are deep and nurturing

    Men are shallow and one track minded
     
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    I base my above comments after years of
    "observations" and multiple marriages....

    And since working on line i cannot help notice
    the amount of males that ask me for cyber sex
    before even knowing anything about me...

    Uugghhh.....

    Shallow and one track minded for sure...


    Praise be to the Goddess!!
     
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    I agree Melissa. I am not attracted to one sex more than the other. It all depends on the type of person they are, not their gender.
     
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    Scorp, I love the crap outta ya, but easy with the blanket statements, hon. Wow!

     
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    That is my opinion and nobody elses....

    I dont expect anyone else to agree.....but out there somewhere
    reading this may be other women who feel the same way...and it
    may come as a relief to them....?

    It is my truth and I am just being honest!!!
     
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    Thats a very good and intellectual argument... go test it out on a real homophobe :p... but seriously I'll keep that in stock and use it if you don't mind.
     
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    Sweet Mel

    Well said! I agree with you totally.
     
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    I agree as well, but at the same time being a male i dont think i would be happy if i only had a 1" penis..
    I know it is sad but what is it that body wise makes a male a male ( and a male different from a female ? )

    Not trying to be out of order or anything....
    sexualy wise the male penis or even the female vagina isnt the main object for sexual desire.

    But when ( and i have experience in this ) a male can not get erect , they feel less of a man mentaly.
    The Penis may not be all that much to a female and why should it be, but to a male if it doesnt work then it can be very soul destroying.
     
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    You can't go wrong with a bit of everything!
     
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    Yet a guy who would make such a statement would come off as sexist... Not meaning to attack you, just saying you should be aware of exceptions to any rule.
     
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    agreed. wat other site do you use?
     
  16. SexyScorp

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    I wouldnt have any problem with
    a guy criticising a woman.......

    God I know women who are gold
    diggers, users of men, nags, cold,
    etc etc....

    How do you heal things, unless you
    bring them out in the open and talk
    about them....?

    Why are people so fearful of being
    honest???
     
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    Some women can be wonderful, they can fill a man's life with love like he never believed possible. Other women can be distant, aloof, cold, nagging monsters just like their mothers! I've seen the best and worst in women in my life, women who were close to me who were beautiful beyond belief and women who were close to me who were more horrid than anyone would believe possible.