I am a 27 year old male, I have been with my girlfriend for the past 9 years. I have been successful in my career and consider myself to be a very stable person. My problem is my sex life. I have not had sex in 2 and half years, an unfortunately I can count the number of times in the past 5 years we have "5" We do other things, mostly I perform Oral on her. I have tried to get her into Mutual Masturbation, but she pulls the embarssment card. Recently she has come to like anal stimulation when I perform oral on her, but I really desire real actual sex, am I wrong?