[Ask a Girl] jerking off

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  1. cum

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    Guys does your wife knows that you jerk off wth out her?. Is she ok with the idea of you jberking off alone?


    Girlis do you know if your husbund jerk off alone? Is that ok w you girls or what are your thoughts
     
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    yes. yes.
     
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    Yes.. She does know. But I do it first thing if I have the morning glory. She aint a morning person at all and I am. I need to get it in the morning and if she can't give me any ill do it myself. She doesn't get why.

    I guess I have a higher sex drive.

    Plus it starts the day off so well.
     
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    My husband knows that I know he jerks off without me and I don't mind at all. I normally ask for photos. Lol

    My husband also knows that I masturbate without him all the time AND that I masturbate with other people and he's completely fine with it. Leaves me wet for him when he gets home. ;)
     
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    Lol nothing better than coming home to a horny woman.

    I must say I find that pretty arrousing mitts.
     
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    Well thank you ;)
     
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    I don't honestly know if he does or not - I suspect not - but I would be ok with it if he did.
     
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    Same here nothing is better than a horny wife waiting for u
     
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    I prefer knowing when they're jerking off without me. eg. "Hey I'm gonna go out in the living room and release myself" ... I don't know I might want to help you know... can't keep a hard cock all to yourself if there's a willing participant!

    I prefer to tell also just in case they might want to offer up their services lol

    But yes I often tell my SO's if I have while they have been out.
     
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    The boyfriend squirmed the first time I asked him about when/where/how he masturbates. But now we both report in about our alone-time exploits. It's part of our dirty talk. We don't live together, so it would be possible, I suppose, to keep it private or even deny it. But we don't have an attitude of "Well why didn't you save it for me?!" or anything like that.
     
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    Lol well Untame I can tell you I'd rather have a womens hands around my cock than my own. It does make it so much better... Especially if she's got her kit off and sits on my lap looking me in the eyes while doing her thing. Just the thought of it gets my body tingling.. But if you take it there you might as well GYFO( get your freak on )!!!
     
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    On the very rare occasion that I do jerk off (yesterday for instance) it is because she is physically away.
    Otherwise if she sees me with a hard on she pounces on it so I just succumb to her ministrations; what else can I do?
    On the other hand she masturbates constantly whether I am present or not and is the reason she has a drawer full of vibes & toys. She has one for every mood.
    God know I love that little woman!
     
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    not married, but my girlfriend knows and says she's seen me.

    she doesn't care
     
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    yes she knows and yes shes OK with it. I love to hear about her time alone, it gets me hot and ready for her. I always make sure im better than she is LOL
     
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    Yes she knows and as long as im not jerking off to a teen porn site sh doesnt care LOL
     
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    Like who else do you masturbate with mitt? I'm curious! Lol
     
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    I'm in the army and am thus away from home a lot. She is very aware that I beat off, and usually likes to participate if we aren't together,via sext or phone sex. I love for her to be a part of my fantasies, and she does too. The same is true about her getting off as well. We both prefer getting off to each other over porn. Sometimes, when we're together. Even, we will masturbate together instead of having sex. Sometimes. Lol.
     
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    I jerk off right in front of my gf she likes it. she does the same. We both dont mind it because we love each other and if one of us is horny and the other is not well its ok to. lol
     
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    My SO knows and has no problem with it
     
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    Just yesterday I was sitting on the couch in my boxers (having just had sex) with my "friend with benefits" and I just kinda decided to jerk off and see what she does, or says. She looked over and asked "What are you doing?" And I shrugged my shoulders and answered "Just fappin'. Mind if we keep eye contact for a while?"

    In the end, I find it was a very close, tender and sensual moment.