Jelqing - Does It Work?

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  1. HaplessRomantic

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    Here's the deal...I've got a below average cock (5.5 " long, 4.5" around) and I'm looking for any feasible way to make myself better endowed. Surgeries have a high rate of dissatisfaction and we all know pills and pumps are bullshit, but jelqing is something that might show some promise. Has anybody tried jelqing and gotten positive growth results?
     
  2. Barbwire

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    Um, my hubby is only slightly larger than you and his peenie does the trick for me. Why do you feel you need something bigger, hon? I hope its not something you thought of while watching porn.
     
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    Dude...I'd say most women (not all) would much prefer a guy with a big heart than a big schlong. Your username certainly suggests that you probably have a big heart.

    Forget about your penis size...for all we know, 5.5 inches might be ideal for hitting the average G-spot. Or maybe you have a 6 inch tongue...that would compensate, eh? Or maybe you have an erotic mind that you can use to make a woman wet by just looking her in the eyes and talking to her?

    Here's what I'm saying: when people try to fix shortcomings, they can generally only get the "bad" moved to "average". So let's say you increase your penis size from 5.5 inches to 6 inches. What does this do for you as a whole? "Congratulations! You've succeeded in making yourself completely average!" Doesn't sound all that great does it? ;)

    Instead of focusing on your shortcomings, figure out what you are already really good at (and there will be some reason that you are good at it). Then, work toward making what you are good at even better. You'll succeed since there's already a reason that you're good at it. Give this a few rounds and you'll have made whatever you used to be merely good at phenomenal instead. And what does THAT do for you as a whole? Well, you've put your whole self closer to phenomenal. Now THAT sounds pretty good, doesn't it? :brow

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    Thank you Google. From another website.

    "Jelqing (also known as milking) is an exercise designed to force large amounts of blood through the penis, increasing the internal pressure and creating controlled damage or micro-tears in the structure of the penis. "

    I'll pass on anything that creates "damage or micro-tears" to my friend down south. ;)
     
  5. heelfetish

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    VERY good idea. As mentioned above, there is no need for you to be bigger. Yeah, it may help boost confidence, but that's about all it's going to go for you. Besides, you still fall within the 'average size' parameters. :)
     
  6. HaplessRomantic

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    Well, thanks for the replies guys.

    Cowboy Lover, didn't you post a thread about being unfulfilled with the sex life in your marriage? Surely your husband's size might factor into that, yeah? I don't know. The main reason I want to make myself a little bigger is so I don't disappoint my partner.
     
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    To be fair, Hapless, CL's problems with her sex life had nothing to do with his penis size.

    Can I ask what made you think your penis is below average?
     
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    The size of a man's penis would rarely figure into a woman's calculation of whether their partner was satisfying in bed or not. However the man's issues with his own size might lead to performance anxiety and an overall lackluster performance. Maybe you should deal with getting over your issue rather than making the issue bigger (Pun intended :D).

    I don't know who got you onto the idea that 5.5 was too small to satisfy a woman, but who ever it was needs to get out into the real world. :eyes
     
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    I don't know. I've always heard that average is 6" in length or something. I'm sure this is something that has come up an infinite number of times at these forums.
     
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    Who cares what the average is.... You have got the right tools for the job, so why stress? Have you really had so many complaints from your lovers that this has begun to get you down? I doubt there have been many (if any) complaints about the size.
     
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    First of all, you've got more than enough to do the trick. So, don't worry. I wouldn't suggest doing any damage to your penis, as that sounds terrible. Don't worry about being slightly below average. There are guys much smaller than you who have satisfying sex lives.
     
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    Hapless, to coin a cliche, it's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean. In other words: Size does not matter. Great lovers come in all sizes. Usually it is the foreplay and the attention to detail that you give to a woman prior to using your tool that makes the penis a bonus. If you focus on making your lady so hot that she is begging for your cock, then she will not care what size it is. Also, to quote sweet Bluesy, "lubricate her mind". As for CL, give the gal a break. She never said that penis size was an issue. Good luck practicing technique!
     
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    First off, that's old news, things have been getting better, and secondly, I never once said anything about his penis size.

    Sadchick, thanks for bringing this up, I had not read Hapless' comment until you pointed it out.

    Edited to add: I just saw your post also, Halogen. Thanks.

    I guess I stopped following this thread because I had said something I thought was the end-all reply. LOL!
     
  14. HaplessRomantic

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    Sorry Cowboy Lover, I didn't mean to put words in your mouth or anything. I guess my insecurities just color everything I see.
     
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    Hey, that's OK, HR. I know I bitch about so much, sometimes it's hard to keep track of it all. Seriously, I wish you'd just step back and see what everyone is saying and take it to heart. You are fine, hon, and don't need to manipulate yourself into being bigger.

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    What will disappoint your partner is worrying so much about your size when you could be spending that time researching how to pleasure her! Because its not the size that determines good sex.
     
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    I'm working on that. I've read She Comes First several times to hone my oral skills. I guess I just have this nagging feeling that I'm always going to disappoint when it comes to my size.
     
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    Let me reassure you that there is little chance (no pun intended) that your size is any disappointment to her. Almost every man wonders if he's big enough, and almost every man wishes he was just a few inches bigger. We've programmed ourselves to believe that bigger is always better, but that's just not the case. As far as I can tell, the only thing a massive schlong is good for is showing off in the men's change room.
     
  19. Barbwire

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    I've been giving this some thought and the three worst lovers I've had in my life all had big dicks. They didn't have a clue about foreplay, especially oral. It's almost as if that they figured their cocks were so impressive they didn't have to learn anything other than stroking techniques. Morons.
     
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    Keep this in mind: reading about "technique" is good (educating yourself is always good!), but more importantly you've got to feel it. Every boyfriend my wife ever had sex with went down on her...BUT...she says I'm the best at it. Why? Because I LOVE going down on her, and will do it in a heartbeat...she knows that I just love giving her head, and I'd do that all night if that was what she wanted. She knows I get so turned on by going down on her that I could practically blow a wad just from that. And that realization turns her on as much (maybe even more) than what I'm physically doing with my tongue.

    BD