it's not coming up!

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  1. Tech

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    hi.
    Is this normal?

    for the past few weeks, i guess its because i have other things going on, I am unable to get the guy down below to knock on the door!

    Even if i look at nude pics or watch some porn, i still cant get it up - maybe for a little bit but not as hard as it normally would be.

    I guess you could say im bored with all of this but how on earth can one "get bored" when it comes to sexual stuff? lol

    is this normal?
     
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    Ummmm -I've been over to the "Adult Media" section - seen the pic of..."the guy below"...
    Looks like he's knocking on something... :whoa . . . ;)
    so - what's the problem?
     
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    lol
    thanks!
    Well I dunno, I guess it was luck and well the excitement of putting it on here - which I feel embarrased now.... !

    I dunno, just the past few weeks, and tonight, was unable to feel the knock or get it up.
    Frustration?

    could be those things where you're fed up of not physically having it but watching it all the time....
     
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    Once in a while I have that problem, but I am 65. How old are you?
     
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    um, much much much younger lol
    20 :-/
     
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    OK - you're just a couple of weeks younger than me :)

    Anyway, well, stress, being tired, medications, can all screw up our libido.
    There have been times when mentally I was REALLY horny but couldn't get it up for anything. (It is still possible to have an orgasm if you aren't hard, ya know - just takes more effort).
     
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    spose...ah well
    ladies wanna help me? lol
     
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    Tech, what I'm not hearing from you is that you actually touch your penis as part of your effort to get it up. Is there some issue here? Do you only use your hand after your penis has gotten erect?
     
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    ive tried both ways Mari.... :) firstly playing - that didnt seem to get much attention then tried to watch some media.... didnt work too much either.
     
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    Dear Tech,
    Eat well, exercise well, sleep well, don't dwell & all will come good.
    In fact try forgetting even about sex or your dick and betting he will come back knocking to remind for some attention.
    Forcing the issue will only aggrevate what is probably just a temporary low point for you just now. We all have those from time to time.
    :chillpill
     
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    Thanks :)
    I have not even thought about it, as i said, for the last 3 weeks or so. ah well, better things in life anyway ;)

    see how it goes.... :)
     
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    Are you taking antidepressants?

    Are you diabetic?
     
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    nope :)
     
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