It's her first time, and she doesn't want me to use a condom

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  1. CynthEtik

    CynthEtik New Member

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    I want to.

    She is a virgin, i'm pretty sure. she is a lesbian, and she still has her hymen.

    i'm scared i'm going to pull a premmy or something happens.

    What do i do?


    edit- can she get pregnant on her period?
     
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    either use a condom or find another girl. preferably not a lesbian.
     
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    Yes, there is a possibility of getting pregnant on her period.
     
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    yeah, you should always use protection.

    no glove no love and all that jazz.
     
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    If she is using other birth control and you are both STD-free, then you don't need to use a condom. Otherwise, you know the answer already.
     
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    Even so, there's always a small chance of pregnancy....
     
  7. buddy0975

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    So she's a lesbian virgin on her period and doesn't want you to use a condom? Yea, I wouldn't be doing it myself, but that's your call. I would definitely wrap it up though, there's a chance of pregnancy during her period and its just good sense to use one.
     
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    The temptation is to say all the things about safe sex and all... Hell at your age I would never have thought of asking the question. I'd have gone for it. I know that is not smart or the correct thing to do but at his age.. Oh well, don't do it it's too dangerous.:dgrin
     
  9. CynthEtik

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    Thanks for the help guys ;D


    edit-and girls
     
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    Use the condom nothing is perfect in birth control and never second guess the risk of STD.
     
  11. dboy129

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    theres no harm in using a condom, apart from you will loose a little bit of sensation. If its her first time it probably isn't going to be great for her anyway.