The straw that broke the camels back. I have broken up with my SO. It was our one year aniversary this Sunday. I was hoping he would take me out somewhere nice and spoil me. He called me to tell me that there is a hour party on this weekend and he wants to go. I told him that I would prefer to spend our aniversary together and do something nice. He went off in a sulk and told me he would call me back. I made up my mind that if he said no then it would be over. I deserve so much more then this. Well, he came back and said that he is going. I told him I want all my stuff packed up and ready for when I come and get it tonight. I really do think this is for the best. I need to be with someone who will appreciate me. He just said that he is sorry and that he is going. I can't be with someone who is so selfish that he is wedged up his own arse. He says that he loves me but I really can't see how. If you love someone then you bend over backwards for them, like I do for him. He is so busy making sure that he is happy that he actually can't be bothered to do something for me.