It....tickles?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Deftones, Oct 12, 2010.

  1. Deftones

    Deftones New Member

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    I've been trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm for the longest time. I've tried oral, but she seems to enjoy fingering more. The problem is that everytime I touch her clitoris, she squirms and pulls my hand off and says it tickles. I've tried being rough and backing off a little, but she just doesn't enjoy it. I don't think we'll ever get there without the stimulation. Any ideas?
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    How old are you two? The way you describe her response, and your reaction coupled with the immediate solicitation of online advise strikes me as early to mid teens.

    Am I wrong?

    ~Steve

  3. FlirtyChick

    FlirtyChick Gold Member

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    I agree with Steve.
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    Deftones New Member

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    Haha. Mid-twenties actually, but thanks for the laugh.
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    Does she masturbate? There really isn't anyone better at getting a woman off than the woman herself. If she does, then ask her to talk to you about it. Communication is always #1. Does she use toys? Does she stimulate herself internally? Clitorally? Maybe she's just self-conscious about letting someone else touch the most sensitive part of her entire body.

    ~Steve
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    Michellesoldman New Member

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    " Maybe she's just self-conscious about letting someone else touch the most sensitive part of her entire body."

    Steve, I'd bet money that you nailed it here......again..lol. But I sure would be interested in hearing how this works out....."it tickles"...hmmmm.
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    Mittimer Gold Member

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    Just adding my experience,
    It does sometimes tickle when my fiancee rubs my clit or goes down on me. I haven't the slightest idea WHY it tickles sometimes but not others. Normally I just have to do mind over matter and take it. It turns into a much better feeling if I just let it go.