A true story to warm your hearts... My father's best pal lost his wife a few years ago...they had been together for ever, so it was a huge blow for him. Within time he met a woman and started to have a thing with her.....shortly after he met another woman and started to have a thing with her too!!! So he has two women on the go....is sexually active with both of them and a sweet irony is they have the SAME name....lol.... My father lost my mother a few months ago and is becoming very lonely....I asked him to use his friend as a "role model".....he is thinking about it... Oh yeah btw the friend with two women will be 84 this year... How can one EVER use the excuse of old age for not LIVING.... Hmmm....I truly believe that old age brings liberaton for some.... I said to my Dad's friend "when I am your age I am gonna have three men, all much younger and all very attentive".......he looked at me and smiled and said "I am sure you will"..... hahaha....cool or what?