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  1. Londyn

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    So when I was 21 I met the guy at work and didn't know he was married until later on we would meet up and have sex mainly he would eat me out and is suck his dick.. That was 14 years ago we are still friends but he keeps asking me to sleep with him even though I'm in a relationship and he's still married. He even went so far as to ask me to spend the night at his house so we can fuck all night.. Now in my younger uncaring years I would of done it but now I keep telling him no and he keeps trying.. I don't wanna ruin his marriage by telling his wife but now I feel as if he's obsessed with me what to do
     
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    Just fuck him.
     
  3. Londyn

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    I want to just to get it over with but I don't wanna cheat u know. But I feel like if I give in he will want more pussy. Maybe if he just eats my pussy out like he wants he'd be happy
     
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    Tell him one more time you are happy in your relationship and do not want anything physical at this time. Then Block his calls, delete him from Facebook. Ignore him.
     
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    Agreed with h4h, what was, was then what is now is now.
    The past does not dictate the future and no means no unless you want it to be yes which by the very nature of your post does not sound like it.
    There is simply no obligation on your part for any further such physical involvement as he demands.
    If you allow him anything just to get him off you back this will never end so if he persists just tell straight to fuck off and leave you be!
     
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    Agreeing also with H4H

    If he persists and refuses to leave you alone then I'd advise notifying your partner, his wife, and/or the authorities.
     
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    Your going to have to put this guy in his place as H4H says, it won't be a one off thing will it, not in his mind.
     
  8. Londyn

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    I told him I'm not interested in doing that. I get he likes more then one woman but I'm not that one. I love my bf and I'm not putting that on the line for him
     
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    How does your man feel about a threesome?

    Maybe you all could have some fun
     
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    He wants a threesome but with another chick and Us Eating pussys
     
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    Nothing wrong with that.

    Maybe you could do both. Do you have another chick in mind yet?
     
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    I don't but if l could eat some pussy I'm down
     
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    Maybe get the current bf and another girl? That way everybody's on board and there's no cheating. Speaking from experience, I highly recommend it this way. :cool:
     
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    I'm not sure what the issue is here. You said no. If he persists, tell him you'll report him for harassment.

    Or just fuck him.

    It's pretty black and white.
     
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    Or there's always those options. Mitt does have a point.
     
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    I think there are more options here. I'm liking the 3 some option. Or maybe even a 4 some. And she doesn't have to fuck him, she can blow him or take it in the butt.

    I missed the part about this being bi-racial.

    Who's black and who's white?
     
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    I'm really hoping that you're joking. If you're not, let me know and I'll respond appropriately
     
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    Popcorn time!
     
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    seriously, if he has once, he will want more, secretly or openly.
    If play takes place, if everyone is okay with it, either 3some or 4some. or nothing without green light
     
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    If you are not losing friends you are not growing.... If he is really bothering you then it's time to not be friends. SImple. Although I get the feeling you might like the attention from all of this which is why he keeps coming back.
     
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