Alright, my sex life isn't very...well it's pretty much non existent. Although we have a son, I understand that sometimes it's hard to have a sex life with children...but our son is very well behaved and we have 1-2 hours every night to just lie in bed without worrying about getting enough sleep for work. It seems like no matter what I do...trying to touch him, kissing him...it just doesn't turn him on. He says his stressful job (and I know it's stressful because we work at the same place) makes it so he has no drive what so ever! I can understand this and I try and massage to get him to relax..hot food and a nice hot shower...and still..NOTHING. Then, when the time does come...it's like...he gets his and it's over! In the 8 years we have been together I have NEVER had an orgasm! Not one! I have brought myself to orgasm once...but I don't do it anymore because I want to badly to achieve it WITH him. Please help...any ideas would be useful.