Is your horniness persistent?

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    A slightly different question than the other thread, but this has come up in conversation with my wife. When she gets horny if nothing happens, but time passes and we get to later in the day she might not still be horny. With me, though, I remain horny until something is done about it.

    So I'm curious if this tends to be the pattern in general with men and women.
     
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    I can take my wife to the brink of orgasm and not let her go over. After a time the feeling passes and she's no longer horny. If she did that to me I'd be all over her until she let me cum - I know, we've tried it. Also, even when we do finish a good sexual session and we both cum, I begin almost immediately planning the next one.
     
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    Its definitely happened for me. I've actually stopped being horny while my boyfriend is pleasuring me. Nothing wrong with what he's doing, just not in the mood for it anymore.
     
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    normally if i get horny and i dont or cant do anything about it, it will pass in time. although sometimes (mostly when i havent masturbated for some days) the hornyness wont go away and i'll have to masturbate.
    also sometimes if im pleasuring myself without reaching orgasm for a long time i'll stop being horny and further masturbation dont do anything. i really dont like when that happens.
     
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    It can go both ways for me lol, just pass away our being very persistent
     
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    Depends, if I'm stuck at work and get horny. I usually can't take care of it, so it fades. But when im home and get turned on, it never truly goes away until I pull it out, and take care of things. :) Then the world is a happy place again, haha
     
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    Most of the time it will persist until I have sex or get myself off. Very rarely does it go away.
     
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    ^ This.

    Unless its something I know I have a chance of taking care of reasonably soon (IE get a nooner, quickie, masturbate, etc), my boner will fade, but it could come back*

    But there has been times where its like 2 hours before quitting time on a friday night, and I know I will be getting some later, that I have a boner the rest of the day, cuz I can't stop thinking about getting some later

    *that was before I started testosterone therapy. Now that I am on it, I literally get a boner every 15 minutes now! But I can think of something to make it go away.
     
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    I have a pretty long "recharge" time. Normally, two or three days can go by without any significant horniness. Then a buildup period begins which often consists of periods of arousal that grow in intensity and duration. I like to add to this by mental and physical stimulation, i.e. porn, or writing; and CBT, stimulation, and arousal/denial. After four or five days (total) I'm a veritable basket case, and sex can be incredible.

    I can, of course, speed this up, or forgo the second stages and just have sex, depending on my mood and situation. If I'm somehow "not in the mood" for a few days, it all just fades into the background and starts over.

    I've sometimes experienced an "energizer bunny" erection, where nothing seems to lead to orgasm, and can be frustrating as well.

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