Is Wifey possibly opening up to a MFM 3some???

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  1. CuriousHubby

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    Ok, so I posted a similar thread earlier about this subject but never really came back to it til now. I want to elaborate a little better about Wifey and I and our situation so I can get some good feedback. I will check back frequently to read some responses and answer any questions that come up. Here goes, we have been married for 15 yrs I was 23 and she was 22. I'm the only guy shes been with and I've only slept with 2 girls before we were married. So we basically grew up learning sex from each other and for the 1st 10-12 yrs of our marriage it was pretty vanilla. Then after we had our 3 kids I started to push for some more risque things in the bedroom and it led to some good stuff like toys and bondage until I tried talking to her about a FMF like every other guy eventually does. For like 3-5 yrs our sex life definitely got better but the FMF never went anywhere, just idle chit chat every once in a while until finally I started to get the picture that that probably wasn't going to happen. So I continued to do more online research and that's where I learned about swinging and MFM threesomes and hotwifing and after awhile I realized the idea was surprisingly turning me on. So I started watching porn where guys share their wives or watch their wives get fucked and it turned me on even more, until one day I innocently brought the idea up to Wifey.
    Now here's where my questions come in. Cuz ever since I brought up the MFM it was like the complete opposite effect than the FMF had on her. We openly talked about it all the time. We went online and watched that kinda porn together. We would even go online and send each other videos of what we thought was hot while I was working and she was home. Finally we moved on to role playing and talking about other men while we have sex and used "toys" to help. After about 6 months of all that my best friend needed a place to stay. Hes been my best friend for 25 yrs and they've known each other ever since her and I first met, 20 yrs. So I asked her if we could help him out and let him stay with us for a couple months and she was ok with it. Now Wifey has loved massages for as long as I've known her and my best friend loves to give massages and speaking from first hand knowledge hes dam good at it and my wife knows that. So ever the opportunist I decided to see if she'd be willing to allow him to rub her shoulders one night while we all watched tv. To my pleasant surprise she said yes. So with that I set it up. The next night my wife and I got the kids to bed early because we had planned to ask him to rub her that night.
    TO BE CONTINUED... There is a lot more I promise...just want to cut it off now so its not too much to take in all at once. (sorry)
    I'd really love all general feedback about any and everything from everyone especially pertaining to what Wifey's feelings could be. Also, just so everyone is clear, up to this point the thought of him rubbing her was really turning me on.
     
  2. Clintriprock

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    Edit with spaced paragraphs and people will actually read it. Walls of words are torture and go unread for the most part
     
  3. Peteher

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    I shared my wife with a good friend, unbelievably erotic. If the thought turns you on just wait until you see her getting it from behind while your dick is in her mouth!
     
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    I would rather be the one fucking her while she deepthroats some guy and rolls his eyes back in his head.....lol.
     
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    keep up great blogs! interested to see where the story goes.
     
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    Yea I'm also interested.
     
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    and then?? lol.....can't just leave us hanging....

    but i think you got a different response because she doesn't know what it could lead to. I wouldnt be surprised if she were afraid to lose you to whatever woman would so happen to oblige you in the FMF.....and i doubt she'd want one of her friends to partake. Now on the other hand, the MFM, is erotic and the guy is your long time friend and she knows that you're turned on by it. it's the lesser of the two evils so-to-speak. But she may open up to FMF after engaging in the MFM.....

    but back to what happened................
     
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    This would probably go best in the story section since this just seems like a story and not really looking for advice.
     
  9. CuriousHubby

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    Ok sorry it took longer to get back and thanks for all your thoughts so far.

    Just fyi Peteher thats my exact fantasy position every time I imagine a MFM threesome! Her doggie, ass up high, sucking my cock as Im cradling her between my arms and legs so I can feel her whole body shake as she's getting pounded! Mmmmm so hot!

    Ok back to the massage...
    Now the plan, and this was my idea although she agreed very quickly lol, was for it to be a "dual massage session" (that's what we call it now when we both rub her), both him and I rubbing her at the same time so she can "experience" and "see" what it would be like for her to get rubbed by 2 men.

    The problem was that she had given me certain rules I had to adhere to in order for her to allow the "dual session" at all. No him rubbing under the shirt and just her neck and shoulders, no oils or lotions, and we disagreed about what she would wear. I wanted short shorts with no panties under and a tank top with no bra, she wanted longer shorts with panties and a t-shirt with a bra. We decided on a t-shirt, no bra, short shorts and panties.

    So Wifey and I get downstairs after getting the kids to bed. She has on our agreed upon outfit and I ask him (she was unaware at the time but I had already tipped him off) if he'd be willing to rub her shoulders while I rubbed her feet as we all watched TV. Of course he agrees and I go about positioning the 3 of us in the best way possible. So I have her sit on the couch with her legs and feet stretched out straight in front of her on an ottoman and he sits behind her on the couch but hes sitting on the back rest of the couch not the cushion with her, so the only body part hes touching and massaging are her bare neck and over her shirt on her shoulders.

    It was all finally happening! We were both rubbing her at the same time! Another man was actually touching my wife right in front of me! In my house! It was great and it turned me on like crazy but all I could think and worry about was what she was thinking and feeling at that moment.

    To my pleasant surprise, when I listened and watched for her reactions she seemed to be enjoying it! Holy shit! I couldn't believe it, Wifey, at least in my eyes, was ok with everything and to me that meant we were on the right track!

    Gotta stop now, I'll check back later and try to write some more...there's a lot more thats happened since so please keep commenting...I truly want all your advice.
     
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    Ok..here's my advice.....DONT DO THAT SHIT WITH THE KIDS IN THE HOUSE!!!

    Other than that, nice job.
     
  11. dave5

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    Hi there are some rules to this game/life that you are going to begin, here are some.
    1. Her prize, her rules.
    2. No means no.
    3. The other guy should get you permission.
    4. agreed no kids in the house.
    5. TRUST.
    7. Do not get attached to anyone but your partner because if you do that will cause issues, same for her.

    please take a few seconds or so and search the web on this lifestyle I know of a good one for you to start with they have a cool fourm.

    Good luck have fun and welcome to our side of the world.