Alright everyone, here's what's going on. I have just recently lost my virginity. Anytime that I have had sex, I have experienced sharp pains in my lower abdomen, approximately where I would cramp during my period. I figured that the pains would go away after a couple of times, but they haven't even started to ease up. Is this normal or is something wrong? I talked to a friend who said she has had the same problem. She said that it was because my boyfriend was going too deep. Now, I'm not knocking him in any way, but he's of average size, not huge. Shouldn't I be able to accommodate an average sized man? If you have any idea what's going on please let me know. Thanks.