So, I'm one of the percentage who can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation so I learned at some point to handle that for myself during sex, usually missionary works best for me. Well, someone commented on my doing this during and made me feel self conscious about it. Is this an unusual thing? Would you be offended or put off if your partner was touching herself while you were engaging in sex? Do I need to explain why i am? It was just so odd but the result is that now I feel awkward and self conscious about it - like I will be afraid to do it now.