[Ask a Girl] Is this normal?

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  1. ken_j7

    ken_j7 New Member

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    I think I am bi. Male 28. Having problems picking up regular women. It's as if, I don't know how to properly communicate with them. Even though I am good looking...

    So this oddly leaves me to following fantasy..

    My question, is this normal?

    I envision about meeting a couple Male/Female, where the Female instructs for me to give oral to her man.

    I want her to think that she has the Alpha male, I want to make the Alpha male to feel even more Alfa.

    I want her to guide me and give proper instructions for how to suck her man off. Even she could gently grab my head

    and help hold it, so that her man gets a proper blow job.

    This fantasy kind of turns me on, as due to my incapability of picking up women...

    Is that normal?
     
  2. Meee

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    Yes.

    P.S. Welcome to the site.
     
  3. xeniadraven

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    Not quite sure how you not being able to communicate with women links in with a fantasy of you in a 3 way with a couple.

    However, I would say any fantasy is ok and you are entitled to enjoy it and even seek out fulfillment xxx
     
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    maybe you are? Or maybe you just have bi fantasies? Have you ever thought about giving it a try?
     
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    Ive actuall been there done that I dont find it bi at all unless ur actually attracted to a male I actuall liked the feeling of his cock in my mouth but was disguseted with the site of a male naked in front of me or rubbing or kissing or any other touching involved but his cock was beautiful im not attracted to dudes just the cock so I still consider my self straight ..
     
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    There are definitely people out there looking for people like you , i would suggest having a look round and posting your needs :)
     
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    why and How do you link the fantasy and the inability to pickup women?

    Do you get turned on by guys in the street or only women?
     
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    There are some questions that remain, glow hits upon them.

    Your fantasy aside sounds like a want to be submissive to a couple that would enjoy controlling/sharing you in such.

    Is this normal? Well, not in a vanilla sense, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, believe me there are tons of people out there that would probably like to do this with you. It's a matter of finding people you are comfortable with.
     
  9. sandwich

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    Hello. I agree with the guys in the street comment.

    I looked into what women like as far as porn goes, and it seems that there are a whole lot who get turned on by lesbian porn but have no desire to start licking other women.

    So do you find yourself being attracted to guys you see and public and wonder how you can meet them to start something up, or is this just a fantasyland thing?
     
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    seems to me, that he meant that his inability in finding common language with the women turns him into a bi
     
  11. sandwich

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    I've had at least a couple of guy friends who had trouble communicating, and they never thought they were bisexual, so maybe I am misunderstanding the original post.
     
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    no, I mean, not that he thinks he is a bi, he is slowly turning into a bi, or I am just wrong
     
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    If you're physically attracted to both men and women, you're bi. For instance, I'm bi, I can look at a guy and say he's sexy and I can look at a girl and think she's sexy. I also love the thought of having sex with a man or a woman. Your fantasy makes it sound like you want to be dominated by a woman and potentially that you're bi-curious. The fantasy sounds normal and very hot.
     
  14. jaimieandlisa

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    very normal.