I do not and have never liked my lover/husband/boyfriend to touch my nipples or clitoris when I am simply involved in my daily living. I love it when the intention is to have sex, but otherwise I feel invaded. Any other part of my body is fine, but those two areas are reserved for actual sexual activity. I relaize this could lead to sex, arousal, etc, but I just don't like it. Now, my boyfriend pats my back and kisses my cheek for physical contact rather than hug and rub backs, all of the touching that I believe are normal to express ccaring and sharing. He feels that all parts of my body should be at his touch desire or I am rejecting him. We have talked about this, but have gotten no where. His sexual history is way different than mine, so I guess we are not compatible. He likes to get to almost orgasm and then back down and then get there again. I DO NOT. So any thoughts on this?