So this is something I'm terribly embarrased about, but I have to ask. Is it normal for feeling down to lower your sex drive as well? During the past few weeks, some undesireable things have been happening in my life and I find that my avatar doesn't describe me the way that it normally does. :lol I am very concerned and like I said, embarrased about this. I usually have so many sexual urges and no girl to use them with, but lately I haven't had any. When I do decide to masturbate, it's just not the same as it used to be. Another part of it might be self-esteem. I'm usually a very confident guy, and at time maybe even cocky. But lately I've been embracing the idea of being a life-long reject. It's a silly reason, but some girls I knew from high school denied my facebook requests and aside from getting pissed off at those bitches it kind of made me feel different about my life. So my question is, is it normal for real-life issues to effect sexual interest and honestly, the ability to "perform"? Or could this be something really bad that is a sign of something else, like I'm going to ohave E.D. by age 24. Something I was used to having the exact opposite of until now. Thanks for reading this and I'd appreciate any feedback I can get.