One of my husbands fantasies was for me to get a strap on. I finally did this. His fantasy included me making him suck it and then using it on him. I did this last weekend. He is really into the humility thing. I don't really know how I feel about this. I know that he enjoyed it, but now it has my mind wondering. How do other men feel about this? I know that he is terrified that anyone would ever find out. Is this fantasy normal?