is this normal? need some advice

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  1. Tech

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    Hi. I hope you are doing well :)

    this is probably my first time I am posting a thread here, so - I feel a bit uneasy.

    I am 20, graduating uni. I am not a typical "male" that is a perv, as most women would think. I do have respect for women despite the amount of times ive had trouble with them (not in a relationship!) - no idea why I just said this


    Right....

    Firstly, every morning I wake up, I seem to be waking up to a hard on! I really dont know why, I dont think I had any sexual dreams at the time. Would be nice if someone was here to surprise me (rolls eyes).

    Why is this? I read a thread on here last night but it was still unconfirmed really why this was the case. No, I dont cum in my sleep....



    Secondly:

    last night I had the wierdest dream. I know, this probably sounds wierd and nasty so I do apologise.

    I think I have been having some dreams like this, all involving sexual activity.

    Pretty much, I had a dream that I was at the local doctors, some blonde nurse took me to the back and well, we pretty much done it! To me, after a long time of not having sex (only had sex once ever!!!) it felt great! I actually felt her....it was just fantastic. Wouldnt mind having that experience - but in PERSON! lol


    Why do these dreams occur? Sure, it maybe natural but there must be some reasons behind it at least?


    sorry for posting such a daft/stupid topic - I apologise :(

    Thank-you for your time!
     
  2. YeahWhatever

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    What's the story, morning glory....? You need a little time to wake up.
     
  3. Rose

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    Hi, Tech. Welcome to the forum here.

    I think its safe to say that almost every guy wakes up with a woody in the morning. Most probably just go ahead and take care of business. It's just a part of your morning ritual...
    1. get out of bed
    2. use the toilet
    3. start the coffee
    4. wank off
    5. grab the newspaper
    6. ... you get the picture ...
    Nothing to feel guilty about. Totally normal physical phenomenon.

    As for your fantasy dream, guys AND GIRLS have those. Sometimes they even end up being wet dreams (LOL) -
    I am assuming you are young (18-ish or so?) . And if so, sex is probably something you think about quite often. I guess its bound to show up in your dreams from time to time, and even more so if you don't have a partner with whom you can explore this part of your life.

    I really hope you don't think you are perverted for these thoughts and feelings. They are natural.
     
  4. Tech

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    thanks Rose, much appreciated. I am 20 - sure, I used to think bout sex all the time but those were the teenage years, as its normal but since I've been 18 i havent thought about it much for alot of factors.

    I wouldnt like to start my day off having a wank really, I just dont feel right i think and really prefer to have a lady there to "share" or whatever. hope that makes sense?

    as for the other new member who replied before you Rose - question goes to them:

    "huh?!?!?!"
     
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    It's called morning glory dude. And it was a reference to the brit pop band oasis who had a CD out years ago called 'what's the strory? (morning glory)"
    Kinda funny, a CD named after a hard on....

    Your post just kinda made remember that CD. You're like "what's the story with..." and the answer is "morning glory" LOL. Hey, just my crap sense of humour that nobody ever gets.

    WhatEver..... :)
     
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    lol i see! :)
     
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    BTW, that's also the lyric from the title track

    What's the story, moring glory? Welll....
    Need a little time to wake, up wake....

    Gen Y-ers eh? Missed out on sooooo much.... :) Remind me, who was Kurt?
     
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    It's all totally normal. I'm three times your age and still have the same experience most every morning. In fact, even moreso when we have sex the night before. Then I ALWAYS wake up as a horny toad.
     
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    lol
    thanks :) glad to know im not alone....
    wish i had a female companian here though....send one over! ;)
     
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    Hi Tech

    As Joe said it is definitely all totally normal.

    Morning hard ons and sexy dreams are nature's way of telling you that your body is working properly!

    As to you saying, "I wouldnt like to start my day off having a wank really"

    Well with or without a partner, you really should give it a go from time to time.

    In my mind, there is no better way of starting a day than by having an Orgasm!:dgrin
     
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    And haven't we already discussed the fact that it is profitable, in that it purifies your prostrate. It's actually healthy! Healthier to DO it, than to NOT do it.
     
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    Yes it's normal to wake up with morning wood. Why? I don't know, but there's probably a reason somewhere published on the internet. As for the dreams, can't really say why you had that dream as I'm not a dream doctor. But it's just a dream and yes, dreams are normal.
     
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    It has something to do with the body expanding the blood vessels down there so they stretch properly, just your body doing maintainence on itself.
     
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    thanks alot! I was a bit worried thinking im turning into a perv or something
    And Rose - wow - thanks again for the valuable advice - any excuse to get rubbing LOL
    nice pic too :p (have i turned into a perv already? lol just kidding)
     
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    Yep - you think a 51 year old grandma is hot.... LOL - Next step: GRANNY SEX!!!!:whoa
     
  16. Tech

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    LOL OMG! *erection straight down*


    no no - i think your hot :p to be honest as I was saying in another topic just now, I prefer older women but sadly never had the chance :(
     
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    It's not that bad, ever see 40 Year Old Virgin?
     
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    yea its normal i wake up with a boner in teh morning 2
     
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    Dude ... I swear that woman was .....mmmm... :dance
     
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