Is This Natural?

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  1. lifespoetry

    lifespoetry New Member

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    So I am a female and I must admit that I love porn, probably more so than my S.O. I mean like any other man he has pictures of women on his computer and we sometimes look at porn together, but I mean I like it more than he does. I find myself downloading porn daily, looking at it, masturbating to it. I know my S.O. knows I like porn but I don't think he knows I like it this much...Sometimes I find myself hiding it from him so he won't think anything is wrong...

    Is anything wrong for a woman to like porn more than a man?
     
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    NO! I think that is great because that means you are much more open to tryng things. PLus, who doesn't love porn?
     
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    No .. nothing wrong with that ... ever person is different ... but, for all you know, he could be hiding it from you also and be just as much into it ... lol ... he could probably be downplaying it because he doesn't want you to think that he is a perv .. just like you ... hehe

    Later ~~~ Angel ~~~
     
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    OoOoH I've never been called a perv before (well not aloud at least) I'm steppin up on the meter..lol:brow
     
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    My feeling about porn is you need to treat it with care, It is great but it can become addictive

    I am relizing this myself, I have decided to cut back on it a little, I only look at it when I masturbate but, I am going to cut back on that too

    It is like anything else in life if you are addicted to something it can control your life if you are not careful

    So, porn is wonderful just use you best judgement
     
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    I watch LOTS of porn and my girlfriend watches just as much as i do, if not, MORE.
    It doesn't bother me, its just western society which makes out that women enjoying porn is wrong, it isnt.
    Me and my girlfriend actually watched our first porno together the other week.
    So dont worry.
     
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    theres nothing wrong with it at all my fiancee likes it just as much as i do, on a few occasions weve watched it before while mutually masterbating
     
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    My wife and I watch porn together on occasion as a sexy ambiance while having sex... But I definitely watch porn way more then her. If I were to turn it on it's hit or miss... either I get a "wow baby that's hot" or "wtf, not fucking porn again" If I had my way she'd love it as much as I do.
     
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    I would say, not if you don't think so! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    thats hot
     
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    No there is nothing wrong with that at all,but as someone has already said be careful porn can be very addicting.If you are not careful "normal" sex is not good enough anymore and then all hell breaks loose.


    And another thing you shouldn't hide it.If you hide it that can lead to BIG problems.Be honest and up front.
     
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    I wish my girl liked watching porn with me, then maybe I could convince her to do some more exciting things
     
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    Seems normal to me, everyone's different :)
     
  14. Master9804

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    Sounds normal to me. I think it,s kewl as hell that a woman likes porn just as much. I don,t see any reason why they shouldn,t. Plays to it. Even better. Me and Hotbabe watch a lot of porn together. Sometimes she watches it alone.
     
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    Sounds very normal to me. I wish my wife were more into it. I have to hide all my porn from her. She knows I'm a lookin' but we still play the game of pretending she don't know.
     
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    +1

    That is my situation to the tee. My wife will watch it with me every now and then, but fa from frequently. Really wish she were into it more.
     
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    Did YOU send that postcard into PostSecret? I read your post yesterday, then saw that postcard; it just seems like too much of a freaky coincidence.

    According to the latest research, both men and women are equally aroused by erotic visual stimuli. That old myth about guys being the visual ones is just that, a myth. Now we just have to figure out why porn is more popular among guys...it may be a cultural thing, conditioning, content, whathaveyou. The important thing is that it appeals to you, and you're perfectly normal in that respect :)
     
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    IMO there is nothing wrong with that.
     
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    Umm what postcard I don't even know what you are talking about???
    I just joined these boards like literally two days ago, so postcard sorry don't know what you are talking bout...:ugh
     
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    LOL, I don't think that porn will interfere with our sex life because I want it ALL THE TIME...I think I just look at him a certain way and I am like, "ok our daughter is at your moms house let's do it before she comes home"
    But porn for me is something beautiful, I think it's the being able to appreciate another woman's body and techniques, maybe I'll see something that we haven't tried, and when that happens I think he knows I have been watching porn....

    I just am trying to find a way to present it to him....like how do I present the fact that I LOVE porn to him?