Is This A Strange Fetish?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by MHmac, May 16, 2014.

  1. MHmac

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    Okay, my very first sexual experience was a very *ahem* practiced girl giving me a spectacular blowjob - dirty talk, effortless deepthroat, constant eye-contact, ect. - and she swallowed with a smile and didn't bat an eye. I know, she was a rare type of woman and it was an especially rare event...believe me, I know.

    Ever since, despite fully realizing how rare that was, I have a powerful fetish for getting oral and the woman swallowing, and any time I fantasize about a woman, that's what I think of.

    I love all kinds of sex, but that in particular just drives me utterly wild. To me it feels the best, is the most visually appealing to watch, and displays a special kind of affection and passion - she must like you and really want to make you feel good to do it, right? Again, that's how it seems to me, anyway.

    Ladies: is that an unusual or weird or inappropriate fetish? How do you honestly feel about giving a guy a blowjob and swallowing?
     
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    It's completely normal. If you knew of all mine you wouldn't be asking. I've only swallowed a handful of times. I think about five in my life. I don't really like it. There are women that absolutely love it. Deep throating is different from the swallowing. I love trying it but haven't mastered it. I have a sensitive gag reflex. I love sucking my husband's cock just not necessarily swallowing or tasting his pre cum for that matter.
     
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    Guess I'm just blessed and spoiled!

    It will happen for you! Not really a fetish or fantasy but you just need to find that someone that shares the same likes.
     
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    So that's not an unusual or gross fixation? Oh good, because I always worry about asking for it from girls I really like and don't want to offend.

    Thank you for your input, I appreciate the help!
     
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    Great fantasy. Me and the Mrs. do this at least twice a week.
     
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    I didn't realize swallowing was out of the ordinary... Shows how informed I am. o_O
     
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    I think it Normal. Normal to want it or crave it and very Normal to have it happen. But have to agree. rare to find a woman who loves Swallowing.
     
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    I guess I'm a lucky guy. Almost every women I have been with has. only two did not, but to me they really don't count. One was a one time thing and the other wouldn't do oral period.

    You don't have to ask the one's that like to do it. They just do it.

    xx
     
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    That is not a fetish, nor a kink.
     
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    My kind of gal :)

    xx
     
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    Thank you Cappy.
     
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    Seems normal to sluttyfairy and me. In fact it's what I fantasize about when she isn't around....
     
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    I swallow every time. Sounds like you need to keep her around!!
    It's not a fetish..., normal if you ask me.
     
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    MHmac - I think one reason you like receiving a bj with swallowing is that it takes no effort from your part. Not even clean-up! You can just sit back, relax, and let the sensation sweep over you. Nothing abnormal in that at all ;)
     
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    My wife and I are both fascinated with cum, she probably got it from me lol. But swallowing is super hot for the both of us.
     
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    I prefer swallowing. Way easier and turns me on. I'm fairly certain the only times I haven't swallowed were at the request of the man wanting to cum elsewhere.

    That being said, I'm not sure this falls into "fetish" category. I think a better way to phrase this would be to say you're a fan of oral.
     
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  17. Doitagain

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    Nothing strange at all