[Ask a Guy] Is there such a thing as TOO wet?

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  1. Nomad88

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    I'm sure this may have been posted already (back when dinosaurs roamed the earth?) but from scanning back through titles none of the recent posts seemed aimed this way. SO:

    I spend a large portion of my day slightly irritated at my girly bits. I basically stay in a mild state of arousal most of my waking(and sleeping) hours. I think this may be due in part to my clitoral hood and labia minora both being almost non-existant. Translation-tight jeans, no panties, just the right pair of panties, a set of stairs...anything can easily make contact with or rub up against my clit.

    Anyhoo, this leaves me pretty wet on any given occasion, but in bed especially if I'm teased, made to wait, tortured a little before actually being able to seek pleasure I'm dripping wet. And I don't mean that in the porno way! I mean that I've had sex with girls before and have talked with many guy friends and I don't recall ever hearing anyone complain of a girl being "too" wet. But it's honestly a little impractical.

    Plus it's not sexy to be mid fuck and have his (quite adequate) cock slipping out of your (not overused) pussy just because your whole nether region is a veritable SLIP-N-SLIDE after foreplay, just to go "Hang on, you sexy stud you...let me just go find something absorbant so I can slop up all the excess moisture in my vaginal area." Okay, so that was a purposefully not sexy statement but you get the point.

    SO! Men (and women) is there such a thing as too wet? Share your experiences.
     
  2. igor

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    There were times years ago when the wife was quite wet and there was barely enough friction for me to get any satisfaction. In a way it was good because I could last a lot longer, but it was a little frustrating too.
     
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    Thanks for the quick response Igor. :-( That's about my decision on the matter, too. It gets frustrating ...friction=pleasure. How obnoxious. What a complaint, eh? "my pussy's too wet..waaah"
     
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    Haha, well I understand completely. It's totally disheartening to have the cock slip out. Which happens at least once every time I have sex. But I don't have the lack of hood that you have. It's just as bad for me.

    Maybe it's more than physical attributes, you know?
     
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    My last girlfriend was a squirter and multi orgasmic. We would always put a towel down before starting anything. Usually I'd get her off manually before doing anythng else and she'd usually squirt before I took away my hand. She'd always be really wet from her thighs to her ass before I ever tried to penetrate her. I never had a problem with her being wet. Going downtown was a special treat, I was soon pretty wet too! She would cum and squirt two or three times after I got into her. I loved it and, oh yeah, I never slipped out. Sex is best when it's wet and messy. Now why did I break up with her???
     
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    Bottom line: A wet pussy is better than no pussy!
     
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    Nothing wrong with to wet. The wetter the more I get turned on.
     
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    "dripping wet"?
    gaaahhh.
    maybe it's because i'm an aquarius or something, but I NEED MOAR WETNESS! if she's out of the shower, on a water bed, and "dripping wet" i'm set.
    gaaahhh.

    even better... on a boat at sea!

    out of the shower, dripping wet, on a water bed in a boat at sea.
     
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    Out of the shower.
    Dripping wet.
    Water bed.
    Boat.
    Sea.

    Gotcha...next? What? :) I'm taking notes for our meeting, California's not that big, y'know! :-D

     
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    what's next? take that all above deck when in the open ocean. aaah :) no land in sight...
     
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    I have to agree with igor. My wife is the same way. I always go down on her clit until she cums before we have intercourse and then is soaking wet. She is not tight to begin with so I can barely feel anything. There was a short time that we had a vibrator and I would use that in between and that dried her up and made it feel tighter. She did not like it so she threw it away.
     
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    can't a woman learn to constrict her.. muscles or something? maybe that would help.
     
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    Yeah you can contract and release your muscles throughout the day and it's supposed to make a difference in the muscular structure of the vaginal walls so that they can contract tighter and firmer during sexual activites-or on command. :) My favorite thing to do is to contract said muscles when I know my partner is cumming and right as he is/ after. Very nice effect, always an appreciative man on the other end.
     
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    You can also get the kegel balls too, to help with those exercises.
     
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    Kegel exercises and good muscle tone also enhance a woman's own sexual responses, even increasing her orgasmic capacity.
     
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    love it wet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Yes!

    in my opinion a woman can get too wet. My girlfriend recently had this problem and often during sex neither of us could feel a thing. after browsing the net we still couldnt find a solution and the doctor couldnt suggest anything untill we eventually got put through to a gianacologisty? (however its spelt lol im hopeless at spelling) Anyways, she eventually managed to narrow it down to hormone levels being too high this was caused by the pill. Managed to get a different pill and everythings fine now. Are you on the pill?
     
  19. Barbwire

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    This topic has been brought up a few times and I've never seen a reply to indicate that hormones may have something to do with being overly wet but, it makes sense to me. Afterall, women's vaginas sometimes dry out as they age and that is caused by a drop in estrogen.

    Cool post, daredude. Thanks for educating me just a little. ;)
     
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    I once sat on my boyfriends face after a good play around session for oral sex and he had to push me off coz apprantly i was drowning him with my 'drippings' lol otherwise unless they work for a while or know how to push my buttons im pretty dry...