Is something wrong?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by roadracer1659, Jun 29, 2007.

  1. roadracer1659

    roadracer1659 New Member

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    Hello Everyone!

    Well here is my delemma...i cum to fast, and then im to tired to do anything more. Basically, i just dont have a desire to have sex, i love blow jobs, but after that im ok. I feel bad for my gf but i cant do anything to make this better if i dont know whats wrong.

    Lets begin with my sexual desire...i dont seem to have much of one, esp. when im with my gf, i know thats wrong to say but it true. I love getting blow jobs from her but after she makes me cum im good. Now, i have to say that part of my reason for not having sex is because of the fact that i only last at best for 5 minutes and i hate it, it bothers me so much! She's a beautiful grl with big breast, nice pussy, and she is open to try things (started shaving for me, tried anal...and im sure i could try more if i knew what to try)...

    I masturbate regularly but not excessivly i believe, and i do so through watching porn and whatnot...i just dont understand how i can get off through watching sex but just dont want to when im involved!

    The second thing that bothers me is the fact that i cum so quickly and easily, whether it be through sex, blow job, or hand jobs, and when i say quick, i mean like 5 minutes or so...all i want to be able to fuck for a decent about of time, enough time to switch up positions and such!

    Im happy with my penis size, at 7 inches, although i with i had more girth...

    If you can give me any insight and help that would be fantastic!

    Thanks!
     
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    privateuser New Member

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    Have u ever tried anything to help you?
    I have heard there is a new drug on the market from AMI.
     
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    SWEEETEEZ New Member

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    dont they have like rings that go around your dick that help with that
     
  4. roadracer1659

    roadracer1659 New Member

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    i dont know this is why i am hear asking everyone! i have never tried anything to help me b/c i dont know where to begin to look and even what it is i would be looking for!
     
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    my ex boyfriend that this same issue he tried horny goat weed and failed but what did work for him was investing in a cock ring from a quick google search this is what I found on them

    A cock ring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the leakage of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually designated as a testicle cuff. Rings can be made of a variety of different materials, most commonly leather, rubber, or silicone, though nylon and metal are also used either as the main component or part of the closure.

    A man may wear a cock ring because he has erectile dysfunction (ED) or otherwise wants to prolong erection, as a sex toy because he likes the particular sensation of tightness and extreme engorgement that wearing one provides, or as jewelry, simply for the appearance. When used for ED, a vacuum pump is used to produce an erection in spite of vascular or nerve damage, and the ring slid off the pump's cylinder onto the base of the penis to maintain the erection.


    As for the cumming to quick have you tried thinking of something non sex related and see if this holds it off my current bf claims this works for him when he wants to last longer then he normally would
     
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    Are you too sensitive? You could get those condoms that help you last longer. I think it says on the box "Longer lasting" or something like that. What its actually doing to numbing you up a bit.They have a spray too, called sta-erect. Not fun for your gf to get in her mouth though haha.

    Try cock rings but if that doesnt help you could be too senstive.

    You could always bring your girl to orgasm first with pussy licking fun haha! And toys for her :D

    If you finish up too fast you should take away the penetrations and your actual touching to orgasm. Just please her first that is if cuming fast doesnt bother you when its your turn to finish.
     
  7. roadracer1659

    roadracer1659 New Member

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    yes believe i am a little sensitive...

    i dont mind pleasuring her first but i would still like to be able to be given a blow job for like 5 minutes then throw a condum on and go at it for 15-20 minutes straight...

    on the other hand i have to look at the fact that i dont even get into the mood to have sex, sometimes its like pulling teeth and that bothers me the most...
     
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    roadracer1659 New Member

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    how do i know what type of cock ring to look at?
     
  9. Richie38

    Richie38 New Member

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    roadracer,

    You probably been watching too many porn films - in real life its not always about banging her for hours on end. As Kahrin said pleasure her first and then she wont mind or care if your super quick. A cock ring would help you but they can feel like your being strangled - i tried one once with a clit stimulator attached to it to see what impact it had and it was ok for her i think but i just felt strangled and wanted to take it off.

    The skill is ensuring that your partner is fully satisfied - Ive have the opposite problem on various occassions, delayed ejaculation and despite what you read that can be a right royal pain, i can tell you. You end up having to stop for fear of making her sore and need a dam hard wank afterwards because you feel frustrated if you cant pull it out of you!

    Best advice is to do what she likes first and dont forget you can always have a quickie, then go down on her slowly and then do her again - No laws about doing it just the once!

    Good luck

    Richie
     
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    cybrcrzy69 New Member

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    I don't know that anything is "wrong" per se. How much sex have you had? It's definitely something that comes with practice. Plus like Richie said, if you please her in other ways beforehand, sex might just be a bonus.

    Also, as for a solution, I've heard plenty of good things about Kegel exercises. They strengthen your pelvic muscles to help you control your orgasm. Try looking those up?

    G'luck, man.
     
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    Roadracer Do you ever give Her oral sex
    for 10-20 minutes befor fucking her or getting a blow job.
    And you sound like you need some vitamines or new
    eating habits, You definetly have a low libado.
    Frankly I would get a check up soon.

    Hiker