Or is she planning to? Your opinions please. My wife is a nurse and she is 39 yrs old. She took a job at a prison (minimum security) about 6 months ago. She has never been on birth control since we have been together (7yrs). We decided from the beginning that we would let nature run it's course and if we got pregnant fine but if not so be it. Well, it never happened. This prison system is notorious for affairs between nurses and guards and has been for sometime. For the last 3 months she almost NEVER wants sex from me and when we do she insists on a condom. This is something she has never requested before. A couple weeks ago she told me that she was making an appointment with her doctor so she could go on birth control pills. Her reasoning for this is she was concerned that in the event of a prison riot if she got raped she wouldn't get pregnant. Now I can understand this reasoning but with everything else combined it makes me wonder. She also makes small comments from time to time about guards making passes at her and also passing comments about a young guard who is "cute". Why the condom? Has she alredy had sex with someone and afraid of the possibility of disease? Is her excuse for birth control legitimate or just an excuse? Please be honest with your opinions. I don't need it sugar coated.