hey what's up? i recently signed up for this forum cuz i've been wondering about this girl i've been seeing for a couple months now. i met her through a relative of mine. she showed some interest, and we began talking, one thing led to another... now two months later, i'm wondering what this chick is really all about. for starters, she was ready to have sex the very first night that we had the opportunity,which was pretty much the second time i met her. as time progressed, she began to let out the freak little by little. she talks a hell of a lot dirtier in bed than most girls that i've been with, which is totally cool, i'm down with it. but, it also makes me think that she's not exactly being honest with me either. she told me she's been with 4 guys in her past and that she hadn't had sex for 8-months prior to being with me. i've learned not to trust any woman that decides they want to sleep with me on the first night, so i didn't believe her, but to tell you the truth i really didn't care. the sex is great except for the fact that she's very loose...i means seriously...i can get my whole fist in there. she even told me she wants me to cum on her face, but i can't figure out if she's saying it to get me off or because she's really done it in the past and enjoys it. either way, she hasn't let me do it yet, but i think i know why...she doesn't want to look like a whore...am i right ladies? so anyway, the other day she told me that she loved me...which freaked me out! up until then it was all fun, but now she's talking like she's in love. i also think i know the answer to that too. you see, because of her profession(hollywood), she's around a lot of high-power guys that always want a quick fuck. she's probably been screwed over so many times, that she wants a nice guy (me) to save her from her whorish mistakes...ever heard of the term "captain save a ho"? well, i'm definitely not going to save her, but i also kind of like the freakiness. i want her to look at me like one of those guys that she can have fun with, but why the f*#@ is she talking about love? it's not like she can't get practically any guy she wants...believe me...she has her pick of the litter. now i'm stuck in this weird situation. on the one hand, i love the physical attraction that i have for her, we have tons of fun together, and the sex is great! on the other hand, i can tell that she's not as innocent as she's letting off, but only because she thinks she's "in love". it's like she sees me as "boyfriend" material and not "boytoy" material. i want her to let loose (no-pun intended). i want her to see that there will never be anything there between us, but we can still keep the physical thing...and that i want her to be with me, the way she has been with another guy that she had not emotional attachment with. is that possible? if so, how do i go about transitioning from the potential boyfriend to "f*%# buddies". on a sidenote and just out of curiosity...and this question is for you ladies. how long before the vagina starts to get some of it's elasticity back? wouldn't you see at least some improvement by staying abstinent for 8-months? sorry about the long post guys...this has been on my mind for a little while now.