Is oral sex usually involved in your one-night stands?

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  1. scorpio_nymph

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    question for both the guys and girls- are your one-night stands usually inclusive of oral sex or are they usually just straight fucking?
     
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    Have not had a lot of one night stands, but the ones I have had all included oral.
     
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    Before I met my partner I had a few one night stands with different guys who I met at various night clubs etc, we both knew in the morning we would walk our seperate ways neither of us wanting to get into any type of relationship- we knew it was just for the sex.

    I did perform oral on one of the guys (I was really turned on by this guy) but all of them were willing to go down on me which I didn't complain about or stop them.
    I guess when you both know it's gonna be a one night stand it's just about getting your rocks off and just pleasuring yourself and not the other person.
     
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    The one night stands I had before meeting my wife always included oral given to me and me giving her oral.........even if the woman I was with at the time would not have given me oral....I would give her oral, especially since going down on a woman is one of my favorite things to do sexually....just seeing and feeling and watching a woman reacting to what Im doing to her turns me on very much.
     
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    i posted a topic about this not too long ago, and my answer is sometimes.
     
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    usually how they start but thats just me
     
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    personally i think that oral sex is important to any sexual encounter it add to the flow of things and makes the sex that much more intense
     
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    I have a real hard time imagining any sex without oral sex, before or after. For some women, they need it. Guys certainly don't need it, but damn do we love it.

    Oral sex is a very necessary part of any sexual encounter, and it takes the sexual experience to a level unachieved by plain fucking.
     
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    Sorry to be a party pooper, but just a word of caution: You can pass and contract the Herpes virus (both strains) via oral sex. It happens all the time, so please don't think you're immune. There are other STDs you can catch via oral sex, too. If you want to play it safe, use a dental dam on women, a flavored condom on a guy. Other options: cut open a lubed condom and place lube-side-down over the vulva (keeping a small bottle of flavored lube on hand for this purpose wouldn't be a bad idea because a regular condom is going to taste rubbery!), turn the condom inside-out and place it over the penis (again, flavored lube would come in handy). You can get flavored condoms (cut it open, place over the vulva for cunnlingus) just about everywhere nowadays, so there's really no excuse to not be prepared.

    Be safe!!
     
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    If anyone has read my previous thread you will know that I had many one night stands, (realy ONE or TWO MINUTE stands would be more correct.) Very many of these involved oral by either partener, whatever they wanted I did. Oral all that some guys want, they fear that "sick" pussy and believe that oral is safe. Incidently Bluesy despite all these unprotected encounters I have never had a STD. Maybe because the great majority of my sex was with young inexperienced guys who had not been around much and often was just a quickie.
     
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    I've had a lot of one night (typically daytime) stands, and oral sex always featured. It adds to the flow and flavour of an encounter, and is the most intimate way to pleasure a woman. It is also an intimate way for a woman to arouse her man.

    It was always unprotected oral, never a STD. Actually, it was generally unprotected intercourse in the days before HIV.

    In my country Herpes is not classified as a STD as the majority of transmissions happen outside of any sexual contact, including oral sex.
     
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    you can carry stds and not know it, so id advise a visit to the health department if one has not already done so.
     
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    My casual encounters were quite some time ago, and I have been checked in the interim without any STDs.
     
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    I think the only woman I've ever had "first sex" with and didn't give oral was a hooker. There have been a few first times when I didn't receive oral, but usually it's been oral both ways -- and lots of it.
     
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    The one I had included oral...but to be honest I hated it. It was sloppy and didn't really do anything for me. Now with my bf on the other hand I absolutely love oral and get off a ton with that...I think that one night stands should just be sex because oral is definately something more intimate, or that's at least what I think.
     
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    thanks mom
     
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    Well just for me ....i love using my tongue far more than anything else.
    nothing quite like a female straddling your face so you have full access to her...and the feelings i get from her having a huge orgasm over and over....is just out of this world...i love being soaked and drenched.

    One night stands i have had ( but not in the usual sense ) and yes everything was on the menu for them that they wanted.
     
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    more alcohol=more time needed for me to get a proper erection, therefore usually lots of oral given!
     
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    Sometimes yeah some times no, it really just kind of depends on how things are going. Getting an STD like is one thing that concerns me though.
     
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    never had a one-night stand but I couldnt imagine having oral sex. In my mind going down on guy is very intimate and requires mutual respect and trust, not something I would expect out of someone I barely knew.