Like most (all?) men I pride myself on being an apt lover. I take great pleasure in satisfying my partner(s) and I am blessed not to have had any problems with duration...I have always been able to withhold orgasm until I feel/understand that my partner is satisfied. Until recently... About two months ago I began dating a girl I'll call "G". We've known each other through a mutual friend for quite some time...and finally 'hooked up' the night we began dating. Before we initially slept together "G" told me (in a somewhat drunken state) that she has never had a partner last longer than 3-4 minutes. I couldn't tell if she was joking...she wasn't. We've slept together about 20 times and I can't help but immediately orgasm with her. It's not the result of her looks (although she is gorgeous) but rather how intense her own orgasm(s) and orgasmic contractions are. She comes quickly, and she comes intensely. She says she doesn't mind...but I'd like to experience long love-making sessions with her. Her ex broke up with her b/c apparently he didn't feel much like a man. I don't have an issue with that... I've had plenty of sex with a moderate amount of lovers (14) and I've NEVER been unable to delay orgasm before. She's had plenty of sex with a moderate amount of lovers (8) and NONE have been able to prevent immediate ejaculation. What's the deal? Have any guys experienced this 'problem' or something similar? Are there any females who have 'difficulty' in delaying climax with their partners?