My missus does not have my libido, She says I want it too much, I say not enough! I know we all have different libidos but it's causing a rift, I said 'if it's too much let me have sex with other women'........yeah imagine her response :eek How do you control a natural desire when lying in bed next to your missus naked? I want it 3-5 times a week which I don't see as excessive but she does. Should I be flicking my ole boy when I get the urge or getting some new pussy?!