[Ask a Girl] Is it weird for a guy to wear a shirt during sex?

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  1. bt1257

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    I never had sex before but if I did I would want to keep my shirt on. I am very insecure about my chest and want to know if women find it weird for a guy to keep a shirt on?
     
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    Hm, it really depends on the setting I guess? =p

    It also depends on the shirt... Ugh, I'm overthinking this I suspect...

    I wouldn't be bothered personally though X3.
     
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    I agree, it depends on the situation. I've often had sex partially dressed.
     
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    I don't think I'd mind. Why are you self conscious about your chest? I wouldn't be bothered by what it looks like, I'd be focusing on other things : )
     
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    I don't think it's that weird, to be honest. Sometimes it can be sexy. I know there are sometimes when I was still married, we'd both be only half naked and it would be hotter than Texas in the summer :)
     
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    Gynecomastia and stretch marks.
     
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    I'll admit I'm a bit self-conscious of my stretch marks, but I used to be about 245lbs (I'm down to about 180lbs or so as of this post)
     
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    @ OP. confidence is the key with any insecurities. Most girls have hangups about their bodies too, so when it comes time to do the deed. She is probably more worried about how big here ass looks or weather or nit you think her Rita are saggy.
     
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    Rita= Tits damn you auto correct. Sorry for double posting but couldn't edit.
     
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    Ah okay, but you shouldn't let that hold you back! I doubt a girl would refuse to have sex with you because of your chest, most wouldn't. I've got loads of body hang ups so I'm very accepting of how guys look; vitiligo, stretch marks, scars I don't care becsause I'm just as self conscious about my own body.

    But confidence is key! I know a girl who's face has lots of acne, she's kind of over weight and has some scars but she's so confident her looks don't even matter, she's gorgeous. She never mentions her 'flaws' so no one notices. I admire that and it makes me think if I just rock my flaws and not care (or pretend not to care) no one will really notice or give a damn.
     
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    Of the approx 8500 times I've had sex, I've worn a shirt exactly....0 times. I've got a few scars from bike and motorcycle wrecks, but I work on my body. I've never had stretch marks...neither has my wife and she's had two kids, she's got one scar from an appendectamy when she was 10 she's not crazy about but nothing to cover up.
     
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    I wear one almost every time
     
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    If you are with the right girl it won't matter at all honey
     
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    I find it kind of strange to be honest. Yes, I've had sex partially clothed but it wasn't because of insecurities.

    If you're having sex with someone, you presumably trust them enough to see your body. If they can see your dick, the most personal part of you, then why not your stomach and chest.

    So, you have some imperfections, that's no reason to hide your body from someone. Sex is personal, sex is about being exposed. Wearing an article of clothing that will get in the way more often then not takes away from it.