is it unusual to ask an ex to stay away from your friends

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  1. fstep

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    in a hooking up way that is ... i mean is that not like an understood thing when you break up you don't date the persons friends, etc
     
  2. heelfetish

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    If this is the same ex that is talking shit about your current girlfriends, maybe it's time you stopped considering her your friend.
     
  3. fstep

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    its actually a different one lol ... its sorta a generic question
     
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    i would think you are right in not wanting him to hook up with your friends...personally i think your friends should know enough not to be hooking up with your ex.
     
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    I wonder if She is your ex because She was
    trying to hook up with one of your friends.

    Hiker:sf
     
  6. Joe

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    Personally, I wouldn't care if an ex was hooking up with a friend, except I might feel sorry for him. A friend of mine once asked me to have a talk with my ex because (he thought) the guy she was dating was a loser. No way! I wanted her to get real serious about ANYONE so she'd stop bitching about me. (They've now been married for 15 years, happily as far as I know.) Had her new guy been a friend of mine I might have warned him about her, but it wouldn't have bothered me.
     
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    no shes my ex cause i cheated on her which is besides the point but we are best friends now so i thought that should be offlimits