Is It Really True??

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  1. Bella

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    Do men really think about sex every seven seconds? :brow
    Is this a myth or is it really true? :shrug
    ~Bella
     
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    I have read that this is a myth, because there is no accurate way to measure "sex thoughts."
     
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    It sounds like a myth to me. If you are concentrating on something at work, or writing a novel, or working on the car you don't think about sex. But men are very sexual, and you can be walking down the street at lunchtime (like me yesterday) and see two young women walking ahead of you, mesmerised by the sway of their hips, and immediately you think sex! Not sex with the two young women, just sex.

    Men are visual, and it doesn't take much visual stimulation to set us off. This man (and I suspect most men) absolutely adores women and all the things that make women different from men. Any of the differences are arousing: her curves, the way she walks, her longer legs, a display of her soft smooth skin.

    I think we are meant to be sexual, and there are good evolutionary reasons why this is so. If we think sex and get aroused on and off during the day, then we need the release of sexual tension with our partner as much as the shared pleasure. Women who love their men, and are in tune with masculinity understand this, and a relationship built around regular good sex is very healthy for the average man. We think sex through various stimulations, and then we have sex with our special soulmate for life.
     
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    It depends on how you look at it.
    If you mean we spend 1 out of every 7 seconds thinking of sex
    Then we shure as hell do.
    If your are saying that exactly every 7 seconds we have a sexual thought
    then maybe not As I do recall going at least 30 seconds once.
    And Your avatar sure as hell doesn't help to clear our dirty minds.

    Hiker:dgrin
     
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    I don't know about "every seven seconds"....

    but it is almost constantly on my mind.
     
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    And mine.......

    :)

    It a myth that it just applies to men......lol
     
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    I am not sure if every seven second I think about sex but I am pretty sure I have never gone 7 seconds without thinking about it
     
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    Well I thought about writing a response to ... sex ... this, but then I realized that all I'd be ... sex ... able to think about while typing it is ... sex ... that beautiful act of copulation that takes place ... sex ... between two loving partners. So I suppose I ... sex ... haven't really got much to say on the issue .... sex

    :lol
     
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    I agree unless I am doing something that requires my total attention but I often see something that would feel good in my ass.
     
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    A1....hehehehe....
     
  11. Bella

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    Thank you for replying! :)
    Loved 'em all! :brow
    A1 - you crack me up!:rofl
    Blows kisses & hugz to you all...thanks again!:grouphug
    ~Bella
     
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    I don't think it's true... I think about sex way more often than that. :p
     
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    :rofl
    Good one heelfetish! :cheer
    ~Bella
     
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    Debunked! Current research indicates that women are just as sexually aroused by visual stimuli.

    When my hormones are a surging, I can't imagine that any guy could come close to my record for sexual thoughts per minute...no way!
     
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    Probably ever 2.5-3 seconds for me
     
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    I think this stat refers to the total time that men think about sex during the day. One out of seven seconds works out to be approximatly 3.5 hours of sex thoughts everyday. When it is put this way it sounds totally reasonable if not under the actual time spent thinking about sex.
     
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    You know, as a guy who studied music (was a musician), you'd be surprised if we were thinking about anything else BESIDES sex. We made everything sound and look sexual. I guarantee you know one in a jazz band is thinking "Wow, she sings great." They're all thinking "Wow, I bet that voice would sound great saying 'You're the best, daddy!'" So yeah, I don't think the seven second thing is too far fetched.
     
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    I think you're right, 1 second out of seven is about 2.5 hours out of our waking day thinking about sex. That makes sense, the two girls with the gorgeous bodies and tight jeans had me thinking sex for at least half an hour afterwards. And then as soon as I see my wife, sex pops into my head! By God I am glad I am married, and we have good regular sex! I feel sorry for the guys I overhear who are married to women who don't love them, and who never have sex and complain about it (rightly too). It must be awful to be a sexual person, and to be in a sexless relationship. Too awful for words.
     
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    Thank you for replying! :cheer
    Got some good answers! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    ...and you wonder why I am with a bass player? :shrug
    It isn't just the jazz musicians marquesl! :brow
    ~Bella
     
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