is it possible to grow?

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  1. Tech

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    I am a complete novice at these things. And I am VERY inexperienced.

    I want to know, truthfully - is it possible to grow your cock size? if so - what is the healthy and safe way of doing so?

    I am avg size I guess, but would love a bit bigger.

    Thank you. (yes, this is genuine and serious)
     
  2. 12barblues

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    Minimally ...yes......
     
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    But it's not how big it is.....it's how you use it.....:D
     
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  5. CTRx

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    You can, with certain exercises, but like 12Bar said, it'd be minimal. I've never tried em, or wanted to really, but I've heard that there's a lot of potential to harm yourself if you don't do em right, which isn't worth it tbh.

    There's entire forums dedicated to them though, if you were really interested.
     
  6. Tech

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    thanks all :)

    so why the whole thing about enlarge your penis etc... etc...? (all the ads you see and on porn websites!)

    when you say minimal? how much are we talking? of course I dont want damage.... ;)
     
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    None of those pills or creams work, they most likely put them on porn sites to entrap men who feel inadequate after watching somebody bigger then them.

    As for how much difference it would make, I can't honestly say, I remember seeing somewhere that a guy had been at it for a year(ish) and had gained maybe a 3rd of an inch in length. Although that could be complete horseshit haha, Google 'jelqing' if you wanna know more, I couldn't honestly tell you.
     
  8. Tech

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    thanks. really appreciate it.

    maybe i should get surgery....
     
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    Wouldn't do the surgery. If you we're to work on it almost daily, you might put on a half inch....maybe an inch? And about the same in girth? Lotsa work for not much gain....probably be better to spend your time working on being a better lover...rather than a bigger lover...lol.
    If you decide to try some enlargement techniques, I would try taking some of the herbal products out there that will increase blood flow while you're doing it.
     
  10. Tech

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    Thank you :)

    I am thick.... but would be nice to stretch it. ah well.
     
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    Dude, you're probably worrying about nothing. I'm a serious grower, not a shower and got bullied about my cock in the school locker room. Then I discovered porn videos. Then I really thought I was small. In actuality, I measure anywhere between 7.5"-8" erect. That means by statistics that only 1.5% of men have a bigger dick than me. 9" is all the bigger most ever get, though the current record is 13.25". If your tool falls between 4.5" and 5.5", you're just a normal average guy and nothing to worry about. If you have 6"-7", you're big. If you are 7.5"-9" you're huge. Contrary to popular belief, cocks bigger than 9"are extremely rare.

    Surgery does little to lengthen the penis. You get .75-1" more visible length for having an unneeded and very risky procedure. Few doctors will recommend it unless your penis is 3" in erect length. In short, if you have 4-6 inches, learn to be happy with what you have. No pills or creams work. Weights and jelqing may yield a slight gain, but you risk damaging your tool. Pumps only make temporary increases and the risk of tissue damage is high.

    Talking to a doctor or a therapist can help. Research has found that when a doctor honestly reassures a guy that his penis is average-sized, he is likely to stop searching for surgery.

    "When it comes to penis size, being average is really where you want to be," says Kerner, the author of books including She Comes First. "Having a penis that's too big can be a much larger problem -- pun unintended -- than one that's too small." For guys who are too big for their partners, oral or vaginal sex can be difficult.


    "Size really doesn't matter nearly as much as being a good and creative lover," Kerner says "How you use your brains, your hands, your mouth, and everything else -- that's what counts in the bedroom."


    I agree with Kerner. I have seen a lot bigger cocks than mine in porn, but at the end of the day, having had several females worry that I'm not gonna fit without hurting them tells me I got plenty.


    So consider: A quest for a bigger penis could leave you with a lumpy, bruised, discolored, thickened, painful, dysfunctional member. (Not to mention a drained bank account.) Does risking the inches you have for the hope of an extra half inch make sense?

    xx
     
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    thanks man. really appreciate that :)

    sadly some women only care about size and nothing else. after 5 years of no sex (literally)... im a little worried just in case. seeing a girl this weekend and she apperently really wants me for long term since we have spoken to each other alot and seen each other a couple of times.

    dont want her to say "is that all?"...
     
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    If she did say that,she would be a total bitch.
    There are many ways of getting women off if you can't do it with your cock,so ask her what she likes.
     
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    Dude, while size queens do exist, your average gal is not. It's not the size that matters, it's the man. It's all in how you seduce her, how you make her feel as you love her. Use your hands, tongue and words to make sure she cums before you stick it in. Chances are at that point, that lil' tech will do just fine. Just because she may have screwed a guy with a bigger cock, doesn't mean he knew what he was doing, or took time and care to see she got off first. Stop worrying about it.

    xx
     
  15. sandwich

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    A few months ago I saw a medical show that was addressing this in the context of sexual satisfaction, and it was noted that if a man is overweight, just losing the extra pounds will add size....not real size, but usable size.
     
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    im not overweight but I KNOW I need to lose a few :) good observation there
     
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    True, ...but if all a guy cares about is the size of his cock, then he is a dick...so losing weight would actually mean LESS dick....right?
     
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    What is it w men wanting their cocks so big? Damn, learn to like what you have.
    Maybe im just in a bad mood, but for real, being average or even small isnt the end of the world.
     
  19. sandwich

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    Let's go with "no comment".
     
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    Hi L4Y....what you are saying is true, but I can say you can find all sorts of women on the internet complaining about their breasts, so I guess both genders can have issues along these lines.