I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while now and for the past couple of weeks we have started saying I love you. I am very close with my family so it is something I enjoy saying and I do mean it, I love him very much. Although I love him I don't know if I am in love with him, as in I see us long term and feel that deep connection. I believe you only find that kind of love a few times in your entire life, and hopefully you have the opportunity to marry one of those people. We are both young and I realize that eventually our lives will go different directions, so I guess what I am asking is, is it okay for me to love him without that deep "true" love?