Is it OK to suck a dick as hard as possible?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by scorpio_nymph, Aug 1, 2007.

  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    i've always kind of wondered about this 'cause it seems like, if the penis is as sensitive as you're always hearing it is, it would be too sensitive to be sucked too hard. the last time i gave a blowjob, the guy kept saying "just go at it", but i kind of restrained myself a little 'cause i was afraid i'd hurt him by sucking too hard or lose control and start using my teeth.
    so is OK to just suck the dick as hard as you can?
     
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    best - let him tell you what he likes and what is hurting him. I depends on what you are doing to the penis and what stage of arousal he is in, how he is feeling it.
     
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    Too loose is no good either, but its something you have to work with him, trust me if you approach him on this and ask him, he will gladly help you figure it out... ;)
     
  4. Kronnie

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    Each guy will normaly have a diffeent gauge for how sensative his penis is....
    Id say i was like that guy id enjoy a female just going for it sucking hard ...
     
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    Listen to what he said and just go at it.
    For me the harder you suck the better I like it.
    But dont let the teeth scrape him.

    Hiker
     
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    As long as no teeth are involved, I don't think you could suck too hard but if by sucking you mean forming a vacuum like you're trying to milk it - that does nothing for me. It's the movement and variation of your lips and tongue over the skin that creates the sensation
     
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    "Go at it" probably means more along the lines of faster, with a lot of energy...not necessarily harder. You know, spitting, sucking, stroking....porno style blowjob.
     
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    There's lot more to fellatio than sucking. There's also a lot of licking, teasing with the tongue, kissing, etc. (although I wouldn't recommend biting or teeth scraping) Just try a bunch of things and see what works. If you do anything painful the guy will let you know right away.
     
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    I find the gf doesn't suck hard enough, or tightly enough.
     
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    Glad you mentioned the finer points.
    I like to call it making love to my cock
    If i tell her "just make love to it" then the kissing, licking and fondling begins.

    Hiker
     
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    Follow what puss in boots said.....PERFECT!!!
     
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    No teeth but yes go a little harder sometimes when you are getting into it. If you don't deep throat then work your hand on the lower half of his shaft so he has a nice enclosed feeling. Mix things up and be creative with different speeds and pressures.
     
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    This as far as i knew was just about this part of sucking a cock, i couldbe wrong but i think scorpio may well already know the finer points...


    Is it OK to suck a dick as hard as possible?
    Some guys will love this, some will not.

    As for me i love gripping my shaft hard and pumping furiously....so i am sure i would love a great deal of hard sucking incorporated into the bj :)
     
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    i love a little grazing of the teeth along with as much suction as possible......WOW!!
     
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    I think its ok.
    Just say " Tell me to stop if it hurts"

    Then go for it!
     
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    It really is up to the guy, I didn't use to like teeth but I do know so just go with what he tells you.

    I may be the only guy like this but when I get a blow job I like my SO to get straight to it not much licking or kissing just complete engulfing of the penis, sorry if that is blunt but thats how I like it

    but really go with what he says I am sure he will say stop if you are hurting him
     
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    The only one I ever knew that sucked that hard was a man in a porn theater in Phoenix. I didn't like it.:(
     
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    I think sucking as hard as you can is fine, personally I dont like teeth but I think thats a very individual thing.
     
  19. Smith&Wesson

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    Yep, Just ask him.
     
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    You're going to have to ask him. No way around that. That said, a good hard sucking can feel great while it's happening, but can leave me feeling bruised the next day. Walking around all day wishing you didn't have clothes rubbing your raw member is not a great thing.