is it ok to be friends with married guys?

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  1. beth_deakin_uni

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    is it ok to be friends with a married man if he makes you mbate?
     
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    I don't see why not.. I'm sure some women masturbate thinking of my hubby, I hope they do. And I have fantasies about a couple married friends..
     
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    And you want to give a 13 year old sex advice?
     
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    thanks thats a relief:}
    literally!
    my lecturer is married but even his face makes me lose it lol
     
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    no i don't but he asked me
     
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    I think it would be OK Beth, everyone has fantasies. You are young and eager to explore your sexuality and such, I understand. I don't mean to sound like a prude, but just be careful you don't mix fantasy with reality. I'm sure he'd be flattered if he knew how you felt about him as any older man would be, married or not. Just don't let him take advantage of you is all I'm saying.
     
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    he already knows because i rub my thighs under the desk and he can see, i saw his eyes go down lol, but he's the most mature man ever so he won't do anything with a student wrong:} but a teacher in high school flirted a couple of us and ended up being fired last year {not because of us but from another girl that telled her mum} so advantage does happen for sure.
     
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    Under the desk? Is he your teacher? Also, are you still in high school?
     
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    Am I right? :p
     
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    I'm gonna be honest.
    Based on your admitted attraction to him- I don't think being friends would work out.
    And even if it did start out as something outside of the classroom, you can bet money his wife would put the brakes on that real quick if she knew about you.
    Just my thoughts.
     
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    1st year of uni.
    he's my lecturer and he holds our tutorials too so i see him twice every week:}
    he sees anyones legs that are in the front row mostly.
     
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    That activity is like playing with fire; fun but highly hazardous!
     
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    i know because especially if you ever talk flirty to a man with his wife in the room because she might slap you in the face or something even more evil. when i was 14 i lost a dogwalking job because i saw the lady yell at her hubby about something when i was bending over.
     
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    I don't care if my husband has female friends because I know he would never cheat on me. He even tells me when he gets hit on. I however do not appreciate when people go out of their way to continuously flirt with him when they know he is married.
     
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    I'm married and have few females im friends with who I flirt with. Hell doing it now on fb lol
     
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    married men make me the most ready, or maybe just elder men, hard to tell.
     
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    Well, unless you want to make enemies out of a lot of married women then you'd best keep it as a fantasy in your head, girl. It is probably just that you are interested in older men and it just so happens that most of the older men you encounter are married or already in a relationship.

    Don't go shamelessly and intentionally flirting and playing with these men, trying to lead them on. That's something that one would expect of a (stupid) 14 year old - not a grown woman who's clever enough to be at University.
     
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    One elderly man who would have been interested in you was called Freud.
     
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    Definitely be friends with married men, I'm married, wanna be friends?
     
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