I didn't think much of it until the topic come up with a girl friend of mine. She was shocked saying she's never heard of a girl not liking oral. She even said I should go to a sex therapist! I don't get aroused in the slightest. I just lie there thinking, "when are we getting to the sex?". I told my ex about it, saying it's nothing to do with his technique, it's just me. Nothing he could do would make it pleasurable. I love being fingered and fucked but oral does nothing for me. Do you think this is normal?