Is it normal for guys with a small penis to never have sex?

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  1. bt1257

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    Just wondering if most guys with a small penis never have sex.
     
  2. Meee

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    In one of your previous threads, you let us know that you believe you have small penis syndrome. Men with small penis syndrome have a lot of avoidance, so many of them do have very few sexual experiences or none at all. This online article talks about that.
     
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    my two cents... God gave you what he gave you. if it bothers you that much talk to a doctor. Some people watch a lat of porn and most of those guys are huge. I mean thats not normal. Normal id anywhere from 4 to 6 inches. If your less then that and it bothers you ask a doctor what options you have. There are implants. Now its not like women and breast implants but they do have ways of making you bigger. If you can afford that or want to go that route than maybe try dating services. Put in there I'm a really nice guy but I'm not big. However I have a huge heart and I'm good other ways. Try to get real Good with oral and your hands and maybe toys. Now keep this in ming there are women that will only sleep with women. they have "NO" cock... And thats OK. I saw a video once of this girl fucking another girl clit to clit and let me tell you that girl fucked the living shit out of the other girl. Just with her pussy lips and clit. The girl on the bottom was in Ecstasy. So while I'm sure your would like a huge cock some guys with huge cocks probably can make women come because they don't know how to use it or they don't know what there girl likes. My wife likes cock but she only cums if I slow suck her clit.... Sometimes she has to be fucked first but she will go nut then push me off and tell me to suck her clit. I'm lucky I think all women should just tell their guy what to do. Lets face it guys are easy. You can just blow me a jerk me off a it and i cum. You can dry fuck me I cum you can use your feet and jerk me off with your big toe I cum... If girls would just ell you what to do then they would cum more. Some girls do and I'm gonna tell you I love when my wife tells me what to do. She tell me to fuck her slow and then she say pull out and lick my pussy. Do you know what kid of a turn on that is. Anyway getting off track. M point is you have what you have and you can make a girl come with what you have. Good luck and don't drive your self crazy. I got a bullet and I use it while I'm standing and fucking my wife on the end of th bed. I can get deep because I'm using the bullet and its tricky. I get in about two inches and use the bullet on her clit and she goes nuts... I hope this helps....
     
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    lack of self confidence can lead to lack of sex. if youre small your small, live with it, doesn't mean you can't satisfy a woman.
     
  5. bt1257

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    A guy with a small penis can be the most confident person in the world, but that doesn't change the size. He will still have a very hard time getting laid because of his small size, theres no getting around that.
     
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    You know its not easy for me to comment. The only thing I can say is things could be worse. There are people who have none ot lost them because of an accident or birth defect. Its hard for me to relate because I do not have that problem. I always thought I was small but I'm like 7 inches and I'm kid of thick. My wife is tiny so it make me feel bigger. She if 5 ft and 105. I have ask her if she was happy of if she wanted a big dong. She said my size is perfect for her because shes small and I'm thick. So sometime I think they may like thickness better. So they so have toys you can slide over to make yourself thick and longer. I don't know how they work. I wish I could give you some real advise. However please try not to let this effect your life so much. Maybe you can post an on line add and just be upfront. Tell them your a great lover but your small. See if you get a reasons. I don't knew. Maybe if it bothering you you can talk to your doctor. Its a tuff thing for you to deal with I would get a medial opinion. You would not believe some of the options these days. My wife got implants and the Doctor was telling me that he gets a lot of guys that come in to reduce the area around their penis to make t bigger. Which does work. If you push in around the are of you penis you penis comes out more.. Anyway if i think of anything I will get back to you Good luck...
     
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    Bt1257, I have been in a lasting and loving relationship with a small. I have had some huge dick in my life. I love my small dick man, we have decently regular sex (barring anything stressful or crazy going on). Quit being so hung up on your penis and enjoy your life! Theres women out there who prefer a non invasive fuck.
     
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    I love that girls "she" is awesome and correct.... Good luck...
     
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    Here are some parts of the article I linked to that might help people who are trying to reply to bt's threads:

    "A certain psychological rigidity, obsessionality or fixation is present. These men are absolutely adamant in their conviction that their genitalia are too small. They insist that they have measured themselves and seem inordinately focused on such measurement.

    They are similarly convinced that they are incapable of pleasing a woman via intercourse, although they are, by and large, not able to cite much evidence to show that this is true. In fact, many of these men admit to having had few or no sexual experiences. There is an implication that some of the few sexual experiences had by some of these men were with prostitutes. Many may have had only a single sexual encounter. Others state that they avoid sexuality entirely as they feel deeply ashamed of their penis size. All of these men affirm the belief that women would universally treat them with contempt if they were to see them nude."



    "These men engage in avoidance behavior and express deep and fundamental fears about their appearance, ability to perform sexually, and their social adequacy. This fear is further perpetuated by very distorted thinking about women and sexuality."



    "These men display prominent cognitive biases in that they easily accept information that tends to confirm their perception of self as inadequate, but reject information that is contrary to their convictions. Only data that convinces them of the smallness of their size and the hopelessness of their existential position is taken seriously and accepted as fact. Our attempts to argue points of fact with these men were adamantly rejected, and we were more than once accused of holding out false hope when we claimed that having a small penis did not have to be the end of the world."
     
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    if you have confidence how does that affect getting laid with a small penis? are you going to drop your pants and a girl says nope to small go home? lol
     
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    Just act like you should charge them to use the little thing and they will swarm on it.
     
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    The fact that you refer to your significant other as "small dick man" doesn't really give me any reassurance. If a girl ever called me that I would probably want to punch her.
     
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    Gee is that a clue?
    Maybe it isn't your dick keeping you from getting laid. Sorry, dude. Hell I bet your dick is bigger than mine. It never kept me from getting laid because I never bothered to tell a woman what my dick looked like before we were ripping our clothes off.
     
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    theres playing devils advocate and then theres hopeless...