Is it just me?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by evman, Jan 6, 2008.

  1. evman

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    For some reason the thought of watching my wife passionately kiss another man is extremely exciting to me. The thought of seeing him grab her ass as they kiss and pressing himself against her as their tounques meet drives me crazy. Anyone else?
     
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    Whew! Not me! I do sometimes get a little turned on when my wife tells me about her former lovers, but they've gotta be FORMER, as in before we met!
     
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    My husband has a fantasy about me giving another man a lap dance. He says I am very sexy and he would love to see me getting off and getting another man off, then send him home so we can do our business!!!!
     
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    My SO is the same way. He wants to watch a guy go nuts for me and everything else, but know that I am only going home with him.

    Just don't think I could do it....Lol :eek:
     
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    And people say I'm compensating for wanting a fast car.

    Really how is that nay different for wanting someone to lust after your SO...

    I understand the subtle differences in it, but it is essentially a pride thing.
     
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    i actually wanted one of my exes to be with another guy. we were out one night and she started dancing sexy with another guy and got him hard. she ran her hand over his cock a few times when dancing while i watched. i was so hard the whole time. the guy touched her ass and tried to put his hand on her tits but she stopped him then rubbed her ass into his cock. she was so sexy and controlling of the guy, then she stopped, we left right away and went home and fucked.
     
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    Oooh, I think you're onto something, hon. Very insightful :tup
     
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    *shrugs* Just because I like going fast does not mean I have a small penis.

    However ... flaunting your wife/SO in front of other people seems either terribly haughty or really objectifying if the woman isn't going along with it. I don't doubt it's a turn on, one of those "yeah ... she's mine" kind of things ... but ...

    I guess whatever yanks your chain...
     
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    I wasn't agreeing with THAT!! :eek OMG! :lol No, no, no, no, no...I was agreeing with your analysis that it's a pride thing. And that's all, I swear! A1's penis = Not small, at all!
     
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    Says the inspector! Awesome!

    EDIT: Thank you as well, I'm glad that I can shed some small amount of light on things.
     
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    Really Bluesy? That's not what you told me in that PM you sent me. :shifty
     
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    "that's NOW what?" Typo? :p
     
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    Actually, it's not really a pride or flaunting thing in my case. I get really turned on by seeing my wife get turned on, EVEN IF I'm not the one flipping the "on" switch. (And that's true whether we are fantasizing about a lap-dance or MMF threesome, or she's checking out shirtless dude pics on the web, or whatever). If it didn't turn her on, then it wouldn't really do much for me.

    She's the same way about me...she was dripping wet after I told her about a 2-girl lap-dance I had at a strip bar while on a business trip...she gets turned on by seeing me turned on, EVEN IF she's not the one flipping the "on" switch. So, it's not really pride or flaunting for either one of us...we truly want and like to see each other feel good, and apparently we are both pretty unselfish about it.

    And that's the way it should be in my opinion...life is hard, it's filled with challenges every day...we all need all the good feelings we can get (within reason:brow) regardless of the source (within reason;)).

    BD
     
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    That depends on how you define "within reason" then doesn't it?! :lol
     
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    He he...we don't have to send him home...it's totally up to you, baba...;)

    BD
     
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    Damn, I've been outed. *sigh* She's right...I said it was a MONOLITHIC STRUCTURE OF BREATHTAKING MAGNIFICENCE.

    Holy shit, that avatar, CL! AAAAAAAH, it's creeping me out :nerv :eek No, no, no, no, no! :lol
     
  17. Barbwire

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    I have no idea what you are talking about, A-1 (That'll teach you to forget to quote before you mock, amateur.)

    Fuck! Bluesy knows how it's done!
     
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    Indeed! :brow
     
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    Hmmmm I somehow doubt it qualifies as an architectural wonder. :eyes

    I think that avvy is hysterical because a hotdog is the last thing I expected to see as a stand-in with a facial context...
     
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    I could have quoted you ... I simply chose not to.