Is it bad that my first kiss lead right to sex?

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  1. Sexual Person

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    I feel sort of bad about it. Should I?
     
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    How old are you?
    Need more details about the kiss, with who, how long have you known him/her?
     
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    I had to wait 21 years for that :eek:
     
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    I'm 24, but I mean like really very first kiss by anyone and I'm a female. All the guy wanted from me was sex though I believe. I feel sort of funny about letting my very first ever kiss turn into sex though. I know I waited for a really long time, but I wasn't really sure what I wanted when I was younger and I was trying to be careful.
     
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    So long as you were not disappointed but in future know that kissing does not necessarily lead to sex unless you want that.
    Never feel pressured to do what you feel is not right for the moment.
     
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    I did really love him though. So when we finally tried a kiss he wanted to go even further so I just done it.
     
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    Well I feel alright about it I guess, sort of...because I mean at least I was in love with him. When other people ask me about my first ever kiss though they might think I'm like such a big whore or something like that, but I'm not and I'm kind of afraid what other people will think of me I guess :/
     
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    As it wasn't with all the guys, you did wait and was then with only a guy that you love/loved then its OK.
    If other people ask you don't have to tell them, if you do, considering the above you are by no means a whore, big or otherwise.
    What other people think of you for your sexual activities is not important as long as you are happy with them and did them & doing them was your own decision.
    Only you can decided what is right or wrong for you, providing they are legal and involve no harm to others.
     
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    You waited 24 years and were with somebody special to you. Be safe and enjoy.
     
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    He was a jerk and we already broke up though.
     
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    You can't take back what has already happened. At the time you did it for, in your mind, the right reasons, so just accept it as one of life's many sexual experiences. Some will be good, some will be bad but we can learn from them all.
     
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    It wasn't too long ago from this year so my heart is still really broken about it. I feel kind of better about my hymen being opened up for future relationships though since it was sort of uncomfortable at first.
     
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    You should not feel bad and the majority of people have dealt with all of this so it really isn't a big deal. Carry on