I am really in need of some advice. I have been with my husband for 14 1/2 years and married for 10 years. We have 3 beautiful boys and I thought our marriage was good but 7 1/2 months ago he walked out on me and the kids. He came back 3 days later asking me to work it out and to stay faithful but live seperately. I agreed but he told me a secert. He told me he desperatley wants to suck another man off with me. Now in his past relationships he has had threesomes but not with me. I am not into that. I told him from the word go pretty much I would never change my mind. Now I have been very supportive about this and he wants to suck one with me. I said I would consider it for him. It certainly is a turn on, but to me I don't want my fantasty's to come true if that makes sense. I am worried he might love it and want more and more of them. He says he is not gay or bi, which if he was I think it would be easier to comprehend all this. When I agreed to consider it I said my rule was we had to be in a good place in our relationship and he agreed. Now months later he is saying he can't wait for us to live together again and wants to do it sooner rather than later. I am so confused because we are not in a good place and I feel he would leave me afterwards. Any advice please!!!!