is foreplay legal in public??

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  1. beth_deakin_uni

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    when we kiss in public my bfs hand rubs my breasts and bottom, is that legal?
    he does at the shopping centre and 10pin bowling.
     
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    Depends on where you are because it can be considered indecent exposure which is against the law in a lot of places.

    Honestly you shouldn't be doing these things in public period. You're subjecting people to your sex life who are not giving you permission to do so. Save it for the bedroom or behind closed doors.
     
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    even if my nipples and bottom are still covered?
    only his hand sees them.
     
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    Taking away whether or not you're exposed you're still not keeping in mind that what you're doing is indecent. It's not made for public view.

    As I said, you're exposing your sex life (as you call it, foreplay- a SEXUAL ACT) to unsolicited men, women and children in a very public place. A shopping plaza or bowling alley is not where this type of activity is meant for and you're old enough to know that.

    The simple fact that you're asking about the legality of it proves that you know what you're doing is risky and/or wrong. Choose a more private place to partake in these activities. Hell a forest or camp ground is more secluded and you have less chance of exposing your activity to anyone who wouldn't otherwise want to see it.
     
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    I think you just have to be really careful. Getting caught would not be too fun I am thinking. Though, there are those who enjoy a little bit of teasing in public. Such as underneath the table at a restaurant. It tends to perhaps heighten the anticipation just a little. The thought of being caught within your mind. Not actually being so, though. It is good to show affection. It's great to be creative when it comes to sex. Just best to maybe always be discreet is all.
     
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    After reading a little more, Australia has indecency laws that what you're doing could technically be violating if reported.

    The punishment is anywhere from jail time to large financial obligations.
     
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    i was scared that it might be illegal, but how do i ask to stop it anyway without sounding boring to him?
    we have sex at picnics but then we go other places and he still rubs tit/bum during kisses.
    is there something a bit like foreplay that he can do instead during kissing?
    if not tit/bum then legs?
    sorry to be a nuisance, just not sure what to say to him/
     
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    Ok everyone Listen up I am an expert....

    It is not legal to have foreplay in public, it only becomes legal if caught :cool:
     
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    4sure its definitely hard to push his hand away anyway because it feels extra good in public:}
    i wonder which things are legal and which not legal.
    hand on thigh is ok i'm, guessing

    i don't want a criminal record, i just want my bf to be happy always/
     
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    which things count as foreplay?:/
    is ok to sit on his knee during kissing?
    hope we can still be happy.
     
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    why don't you Google your Country's decency Law's as see what comes up....
     
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    might not be easy but maybe o_O
     
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    Chances are that anything which can be seen directly by others as indecent would most likely be not legal. Just as the poster says above. Some places are just way too public for anything at all. You really just have to be careful. Because, what may be seen as decent to the both of you can very easily be seen as not to someone else.

    It is great you continue to want to be the best partner possible. And, I know you say it feels "extra good" in public. There are definitely definitive ways to be creative in which you can still have a little fun out there without being so demonstrative about it.
     
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    Illegal when you get caught.
     
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    Still indecent in public, pretty much the bottom line
     
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    No, it's not legal. Think of the children! Or maybe you are and that's the problem! :D
     
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    everything is legal in public....its what you get caught doing that isn't :rolleyes:
     
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